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38 Eugene, OR Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

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Heteroflexible, Bisexual
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has cats
English, French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I actually live in Portland full time, and I'll be in Eugene Friday night with the evening off, and I thought it would be awesome to have an interesting date! I've never had the chance to meet any of the beautiful women in Eugene. Let's meet up and talk about projects and art too big to accomplish alone, and leave all buzzed with new ideas!

Also, this profile is SUPER old - I've updated it to say that I'm in an open relationship, though regarding Friday in Eugene I'm simply looking for a fun night out doing pirate mail/letter writing!

I have a number of great projects, but not on a particular schedule. As long as I get my tasks done, I can meet for lunches, dinners, happy hours.

I have had several careers - I was a Seattle bike messenger while I got my undergrad, then worked special ed while I got a masters in teaching, then taught in public and private schools. Now I'm running a business, making art and working on my dissertation, focusing on how we would organize math education for the next century.

I ask everyone 'what do you make?' - this is a better choice than 'what do you do?' - it speaks to the heart of their growth and interest in the world. Let's make some things!
What I’m doing with my life
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I need to write my dissertation proposal. My business is running itself. I have a 15-year-old who lives with me, which is great because he's old enough to run his own life.

I have art I'm working on, fiction and non-fiction I'm reading and writing, and computer modeling of network visualization displays.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm getting extremely good at information theory, computer modeling, welding, construction, baking chocolate chip cookies, organizing group projects, designing art projects (and even sometimes implementing them!) and juggling many many balls without dropping any (metaphorically, I'm actually a shitty juggler).
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm working on something...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Science Fiction books and movies, though not horror - isn't that strange? So I like 'Aliens' as science fiction but get impatient when we watch 20 minutes of suspense in Prometheus. I like '28 days later' (science zombies!) but hate zombies in general.

Books: Anathem, Name of the Wind, Baroque Cycle

Shows - The Lower 48, here in town. Electronic music. Parties we throw at our building with amazing DJs.

PS - I find myself uninterested in writing all the details out for this one, so I answered very little. There's so much!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the internet
a project
things that roll
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cognition, decision making and metaphor. How groups reach decisions, and most specifically, the times the group goes one way right now while engendering a long-term backlash.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've been hosting a series of large-scale events at our large industrial building...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Also, I'm convinced that everyone is worth knowing, and I'm disappointed in myself if I can't find the patience to appreciate a difficult person.
You should message me if
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I think I'm after what everyone on this site is after - I think we all hope to meet someone who inspires us to be better people, to believe in the possibility of the future, to make and create.

You'd like to do more than sitting in a bar having drinks.

If you have ever undertaken a quest.

If you believe that the world can be improved, by you, in your lifetime (the efficacy problem).

If you have a poem memorized.