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socialtealight

21 / F / straight / Single

Kansas City, Missouri

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Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intellectual, sardonic, and unpretentious.

My Self-Summary

I like to think, read, write, laugh, and be hilarious.I love music and not really any specific genre, but my favorite artist is Ryan Adams. I play trivia frequently...I thrive on random information.
I do all kinds of crafts, but trying not to go in the crazy cat lady direction. I like to be creative and do anything hands on. If it is something artistic i want to know how to do it.
I'm pretty easy to get along with and I'm not very shy. I think that so many people waste their time trying to impress everyone around them that they forget to enjoy themselves.
I consider myself to be intellegent and I like having intellectual conversation. If someone can make me think about something in a different light I think thats great. I am very open-minded and I spark conversation with everyone around me.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently taking 18 credit hours at a community college and then transferring to a four year college to do elementary education while I get my masters and then become a Philosophy Professor at a College. I take my education very seriously. I love learning things, and ideally will be learning new things for the rest of my life. I do lots of crafts and I am an "artsy" person.

I don't think my career goals should define me though...I don't want to be the boring 9 to 5 kind of gal...I live life as I see fit.

I’m really good at

I'm good at talking, thinking, discussing music, laughing, making things, being creative, listening, making people laugh, and not taking life too seriously.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

MOST PLAYED ON MY IPOD: Bright Eyes, The Shins, The Format, the Frames, Lovedrug, MGMT, Modest Mouse, Eisley, the bird and the bee, cold war kids, RYAN ADAMS, the pixies, arcade fire, the decemberists, Wilco, Placebo, the postal service, Minus the bear, the honorary title, brand new, uncle tulepo, the new amsterdams, freezepop, the sex pistols, vampire weekend, social distortion, the black lips, the wombats, feist, Regina Spektor, sigur ros, johnny cash, roger miller, johnny horton, june carter, queen, the temptations, dinosaur jr., black kids, Tokyo Police Club, of montreal, belle and sebastian, iron and wine, Damien Rice

Favorite TV Shows:the history channel, A&E, DIY, The Office, 8 items or less, Big bang theory, arrested developement, pushing daisies, Glee and for some reason I have an odd fixation on law and order svu/c.i.

Favorite Movies:A beautiful mind, gross point blank, christopher guest movies, shawshank redemption, the fountain, the exorcist, the boondock saints, wristcutters: a love story, driving lessons, hard candy

Favorite Books/Authors:Sylvia Plath, Oscar Wilde, Vonnegut, Of Mice and Men, The Glass Castle,One More Day,The Glass Castle, Poe, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttimem, Nietsche, Kant, I could go on and on and on...i love to read.

The six things I could never do without

1) MUSIC (my cds, ipod and record collection)
2) My dog, chowder
3) Friends
4) Family
5) tea or coffee
6) Art [making]

I spend a lot of time thinking about

everything. I want to be a philosophy teacher, so if you've thought about it, I'm sure I have too; from "does god exist?" to "where does your lap go when you stand up?".
Also, what i can make or create next.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hmm...fridays are either out with friends, at a concert, or just staying at home with my dog chowder and making art or jewelry.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Mandy Moore movies make me cry.
I hate sleeping by myself.
I frequently talk to my dog.
I sometimes brush my teeth in the shower.
I bite my lip when I'm nervous or thinking.
I prodominately have friends of the male persuassion.

"The way I see it isn't necessarily the way you see it, or the way it is or ought to be. What's more important is that we're all looking for it and a way to see it"- Desi Di Nardo

You should message me if

you actually want to have a legitimate conversation.

You're mother lied. You were not born special. You are simply a speck of dust in a bowl of ashes.Your race, money, and fame are no more to me than the color of your socks or what you ate for breakfast. Your ability to buy flowers doesn't compensate for your lack of intellect. Your attempts at empty charm and flattery for a free ride pass will be endlessly fruitless. Passion is rare and for that it is beautiful. Not passion for me, but passion for anything; art, a song, a dream. Knowledge is powerful. It can take/lead you to places others can't even concieve. The more you possess and the more you realize you know nothing the more powerful you become. Music is soul and with out soul you are nothing. Music provides you with your own personal soundtrack and speaks when there is nothing left to say. IF you possess all of these things you are beautiful and I and anyone would be lucky to know you.