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44 M Budapest, Hungary

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:36pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and wants more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Anyone going hiking, skiing.. or any kind of outdoor sport/motion that I could tag along with ? :) Also looking for someone interesting in joining me for a show.. or some music.. or a drink at a pub?

Wow.. well I guess I'm me. I've never been too good at the "tell me who you are in under 30sec" type thing. Much easier via Q&A. I'll just say that I'm Scottish(Brit), Canadian and Swiss (3 passports.. that's normal right? :)). Currently living in Bp, Hungary - been there for a while now, but not determined to stay forever :) And I'm looking for ... friends. more.. however things work out.. I prefer to meet up without preconceptions as to who we are/will be and 'where its all going'

Currently diving into the morass that is my subconscious.. trying to find out what makes me tick.. or tock ... why I have issues and how to work with them. Exciting stuff.. and scary as hell all at the same time.

I was born in Scotland and spent the first formative part of my life pretty much IN a buddhist center.. so a lot of stuff just seems normal to me that may seem a bit odd.. and I've noticed that my view of the world is often slightly askew... or maybe everyone else's is? :D
What I’m doing with my life
Working, making ends meet, trying to instill some sense of values in my daughter. Looking for true love and happiness. I'd love to have more children... just not that easy for a single guy.. although I guess I could hang around the playground a bit more... maybe they wouldn't miss one? :D Ok.. that sounds a bit creepy... much prefer our own .. really!

I'm also treading the slow path to realization.. maybe slower than a lot of you.. but at least I know the path is there... (as if that helps :D)
I’m really good at
Reading, talking, listening, procrastinating.. sleeping.. cooking (love to cook...),and making things, and well.. stuff :) and understanding cat-speak.. I think that counts as a skill .. right?

Kindof a funny question - requires a certain amount of ego to say I'M GREAT AT ... don't you think? :) I'm good at a lot of stuff though :) Languages for instance....
The first things people usually notice about me
Slightly missing eyebrows (bad habit - working to break it), and my sense of humour - anything else? Plz let me know :))
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Skip the laugh tracks - I love humor.. the intelligent British kind especially - love Monty Python.. and absurd humour :) And well... also can skip romance novels etc, otherwise pretty much anything goes from classics to modern - from traditional to eclectic. I love good food and wines, and well... sci-fi, fantasy, classics, other fiction - I think I'm currently reading about 3 books.. I love art and theater(although rarely get the opportunity to go).. and concerts and.. for music - other than house/trance (which i guess has its place with mood enhancers), I'm an omnivore - no absolute favourites - more of a bit of everything :)

I'm actually using OKC as a hint list for books that I might like.. I hope that's not infringement on anyone's rights or anything :)

I think I'll watch almost anything with zombies, superpowers, supernatural things and/or vampires :) But I do have a limit as to how much camp I can take... :)

Salt & vinegar crisps make the world go round!!! Can't for the life of me figure out why no-one makes them outside of Britain ...

Love wine... and other mixed things.. but beer is a no-no. I have kind of a reverse Pavlovian reflex instilled in me from an early teen experience.. and ugh.. nope... just can't do it... anything but beer! :D

Update: I DRANK BEER!! Ok.. only 2 - I didnt want to push my luck, but it's a start :) 1 red ale made by Kell's in Seattle and 1 Killkenny. St Paddy's day was the perfect testing grounds :D
The six things I could never do without
family + daughter, friends, books, my cats, women, sex(or rather intimacy - w/o that its just mechanics) and um.. oh yes.. good wine and food.. (boooring.. I know - Its a work in progress :)) Sex is important.. but not indiscriminately!!
And no travelling without my kindle!! :)
oops.. thats more than six... too bad :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, love, happiness. Injustice, global warming. Why am I still single? Problems with the government, corruption, food, wines, moving to the countryside somewhere.. and so on. :) I'd still like to write a book - just need the inspiration and the time ;)

Why things are just so f****d up in general in Hungary, and is there any chance for change...
On a typical Friday night I am
Not partying. Either at a friend's place for wine/food, or with my daughter, or with a book at home. I hate cigarette smoke, and most of my friends have new women/wives/kids, so the party group has evaporated. No worries - at least I don't have to burn my clothes at the end of the evening :)

Love to get out and dance.. listen to some music... get myself moving.. but sometimes need a little push/pull to get started...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Do I really have to choose ONE thing? :-)
hmm.. well how about that as a child I used to knit and sew clothes and outfits for my action men figures... :) I don't remember how to knit however... so relax... no socks or sweaters for xmas :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I don't know why there's an IF at then end of the sentence. You should just message me!!! :)) Ok... if you're interested, like a man with a sense of humour and other qualities (no, I don't even OWN a chainsaw! :D) .. You are feeling relaxed.. look deep into my eyes.. and write to me!! :D

Apparently I'm either NOT a gifted hypnotist, or maybe I should move this to the beginning of my profile?? :)