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28 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 12
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Talkative nerd.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reinforcing income inequality through clever use of technology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to strangers. Rephrasing things to make sure I understand them. Removing words from sentences without destroying them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm barefoot yet mysteriously business casual.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading: The Unwinding (beautiful narratives about money displacing institutions in the US), The Fucking Epic Twitter Quest of @MayorEmmanuel, How to Read a Book, various statistics papers. Gabriel Garcia Marquez still owns my heart. In my early twenties I was cured of philosophy but I relapse occasionally.

Listening: Boards of Canada, Vampire Weekend, Arcade Fire, Simon & Garfunkel, Belle & Sebastian, Taylor Swift. Square-wave-y video game music is great for focus.

Playing: Blues ukulele, and most recently mandolin. I highly recommend picking up an instrument as an adult.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Social gatherings with space for side conversations
2. Making and breaking habits
3. Science fiction
4. Meditation
5. Used book stores
6. Accomplices
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hosting a dinner party. I try to be friends with people who can carry on a good conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Every once in a while when I'm alone I worry that I am trapped in a horror movie.

I find OkCupid to be a great source of self-knowledge. Seriously, how often do you fill out questionnaires like this about yourself?
You should message me if
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The fact that I'm in a happy open marriage with eyesofgreen4 is a turn-on instead of a turn-off.

You think that talking nerdy and talking dirty complement each other.

You don't mind that, realistically, I'm only free a few nights a month.

You're my missing Costco Soulmate Trading Outlet soulmate.

You can teach me how to better play bridge.

You have nostalgia for planetariums.