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28 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 11
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Carrying a book, usually laughing, making plans. Talkative nerd.
What I’m doing with my life
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I worked at OkCupid, on the Blog team. Now I'm a data nerd with a team for cash.

My days are spent drawing graphs; my nights are spent walking around outside, drinking good beer, engaging in the examined life, and reading books.

Life is short, but if lived well, very wide.
I’m really good at
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Walking for miles. Finding the best book in a used book store. Talking to strangers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm barefoot but still wearing a dress shirt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some things I had recently read/eaten/heard around when I filled this out:

Reading: The Unwinding (beautiful narratives about money displacing institutions in the US), The Fucking Epic Twitter Quest of @MayorEmmanuel, How to Read a Book, various statistics papers. Gabriel Garcia Marquez still owns my heart. In my early twenties I was cured of philosophy but I relapse occasionally.

Eating: These days, too many meaty things. I developed some weird allergies so I've been playing it safe with simple dishes.

Listening: Boards of Canada, Vampire Weekend, Arcade Fire, Simon & Garfunkel, Belle & Sebastian, the better bits if contemporary pop. Square-wave-y video game music to help me focus at work. It's really effective.

Playing: Blues ukulele, and most recently mandolin. I didn't even realize until my mid-20's how much I really genuinely wanted to learn to make music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to say things with pictures. What it would be like to travel back in time or have time travelers from the past visit today. How our experience is shaped by history and the objects around us.

How using OkCupid can be a form of self knowledge, if you let it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Every once in a while when I'm alone I worry that I am trapped in a horror movie.
You should message me if
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The fact that I'm in a happy open relationship with eyesofgreen4 is a turn-on instead of a turn-off.

You think that talking nerdy and talking dirty complement each other.

You don't mind that, realistically, I'm only free a few nights a month.

You have nostalgia for planetariums.