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40 Alexandria, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:48pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well this is the sales pitch right? Let me try something are some things about me I would like you to know. First I am the last of 8 children (I believe cable was invited in my neighborhood after my birth). My oldest brother is 19 years older then we almost feel like cousins instead of bothers sometimes.

I am a combat veteran, with time spent in Iraq, Afghanistan, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia (I was able to hit all the exotic spots while in the Air Force). I was fortunate enough to get into procurement for my last 6 years...that training and experience enabled me to continue serving others as a government employee(and job security doesn't hurt right!).

I have a love for stand-up comedy...recently I have been attending more shows and might even try and get back on local mic nights and stages sometime soon(I have actually tried stand-up twice... they went pretty well I think). If money were not any issue and I could do anything in the world it would either be comedy or working daily with the wounded warrior project.

Online dating is something different...since I have been on this site not only have a found out a great deal about myself but I have found out a great deal about others again as well. As I get older I see how it can be difficult to meet people organically these days(and I am truly a people person and enjoy meeting new people). So what should I expect from this or any online dating site? I am hoping to meet all types of order to find out more about yourself you need to be exposed to different trains of thought right? I am also hoping to find that one true connection...that of a best friend, a partner. I am hopefully to find someone to share life with....not someone that completes or needs to be completed by another. Life is short...have fun and enjoy your time with the people who make you better.

Finally I am risk life and love. While I am not reckless I do believe that trying anything once is almost required!!! Too often people believe they have reached their limitations or that certain activities, places, ideas or moments should not be experienced. I say try everything....while finding the things worth repeating and holding onto!!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day. is not important ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking and teaching...which helps in my current line of work. I love playing sports and being outdoors. I have been scuba diving for 20 years and love to see new things when I get a chance to get wet!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and then my sense of humor. I am sarcastic but love making others laugh instead of laughing at them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love Poe, Clancy and Mitch Albom (The Five people you meet in heaven)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well there isn't anything that i can't live with out but here are the things I prefer to not be without:

Red wine
the beach
passport(work or pleasure...I love traveling)
Yankees baseball
working out (knee surgery has rekindled my desire to get in better shape).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I will be next. I spend a lot of time putting myself out there...instead of waiting for things to happen.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner or having drinks with friends.

Is there really a typical Friday night? Not in my little world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sports are too important in my life....what can I say....I'm a guy!
You should message me if
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You are ready to take a chance....let's see what happens!