Here's what I think is hot - brains, courage, empathy, embracing your sexuality, pursuing your passions, and a solid fuck-it attitude.
I think my defining personality trait is irreverence. There are so many things that people hold as sacred: ideas, beliefs, social normal, systems of authority, etc..., why does anybody think that this shit matters? Once you dump all that stuff you get to define you own rules and pursue your own path - I think that sounds awesome - don't you?
I'm a city man through and through. I love being able to walk to a coffee shop, the market, the bookstore, the bar - basically all the things. Living in the city means that I don't have to bend my moods and schedule to some silently acquiesced to suburban or rural routine; the city caters to my erratic hours and changing interests without fail. More than anything else the city means people, a lot of interesting people - it's brain candy.
I think food is delicious and I want more of it. Much more. If you're not eating Arabic food on the regular then you should fix that - I know that of which I speak cause I'm Palestinian. On a related note, I am Palestinian and if you need somebody to unravel the mysteries of the Middle East conflict I'd be more than happy to answer all your questions for you - it doesn't even need to end in a sex party.