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sofigureitout

50 M El Cerrito, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like being in nature, traveling and being creative. Relationships are very important to me and I like to feel like I'm close to people. My current goal in life is to have more fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just returned from a trip to Virgin Gorda for climbing and photography and some beach life ... it was perfect; rocks to climb and jump off of into a warm bright blue ocean full of colorful fish. I wish I could do that everyday! I have an old and beautiful house, so I spend a fair bit of time keeping her up. The rest of the time I work as a photographer and writer. My dream is to have a home in Europe and the Bay Area and go freely back and forth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and compassion.

I also have a rare ability to throw stuff up to friends up on rock climbs... if you can think of a way for me turn this skill into cash I'll marry you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyeballs?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Cold Mountain, East of Eden and All the Pretty Horses.

The Same River Twice, When We Were Kings and The Bourne Identity. Talladega Nights makes me laugh every time.

I think The Terminator is the most romantic movie of all time (seriously... "I came across time for you, Sarah Conner")

I really like stumbling upon live music (Farmers mkts, subways, sidewalks)

Cheese Board, Cactus Taqueria, Viks, MMMMM!! Good Earth (in Fairfax) salad bar, anything from my garden... MMMM! Chocolate....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends.
Swimming in lakes and rivers and oceans!
Hot springs.
Winter hikes on sunny days and green grass.
Back rubs on the beach.
Climbing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Climbing, photography, design, friendships, relationships, my next trip, how fabulous everybody tries to appear on their OKcupid profile (myself included).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting ready for a trip to the mountains, or out to dinner with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not very mainstream.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like some of the things that I like.
You have a playful and easygoing nature.
You are sweet and kindhearted.
You have an open minded approach to life.
You like to travel.
You care about the planet.
You are somewhat (but not completely) hedonistic.
You know how to have a relationship.
You are honest.
You're into photography.
Bonus if you like climbing outside.