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softhearted001

44 M Valley Forge, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Summertime greetings to everyone!

First, some disclaimers: I'm blatantly uncool. I'm not into social networking; I don't use a cell phone and hope I never get one; I don't watch prime time TV; I have no tattoos or piercings; I neither like nor use porn; and I actually like DEVO, which all by itself would brand me in some quarters as uncool for life.

With that said, welcome to my profile! I am a homeowner and a gainfully employed techie professional. In my past life I have been a receptionist, a beauty consultant, a sales clerk, a flat broke college student, a landscaper, and a wide receiver. I enjoy gardening, cooking, dining, shopping, travel, music (baroque, classical, and 1950s/70s/80s rock especially), and classic movies as well. I'm also an inveterate reader - everything from history and theology, to fashion and romance! And I do have quite the soft spots for lace, silk scarves and pink carnations.

My evenings and weekends are routinely free. I am not a party animal, nor am I into any alternative or wild living; I'm definitely family oriented. In addition, I have no handheld electronic gadgets in my possession, so I won't blow you off mid-conversation to check my phone for random texts or calls.

My relationship with technology is as follows: I don't do social networks. I have no cell phone, so I don't text. I neither play fantasy sports, nor do I watch or bet on games. I am not an avid video gamer. I have a healthy distrust of innovation. I don't follow the pop culture / sports / entertainment / news cult. And I am completely uninterested in viewing any blogs, FB posts or homemade / viral online videos.

In fact, I'm such a retrograde dinosaur that I only read printed books and magazines (with actual pages, binding and ink). Therefore, you will always have my undivided, personal attention wherever we may be, without distractions. (My mom and dad taught me not to play with toys at the table!) Conversation should be face to face, or at least voice to voice.

You will instead find me indulging my cooking and baking skills, keeping active to stay healthy and preserve my physique, enjoying old movies from Netflix (when I'm not freeriding them on YouTube, that is), landscaping my garden, improving my home, volunteering with the ladies at my parish, dressing up for the symphony or the ballet, or perhaps expanding my wardrobe. Good thing I had my closets redone!

Do let me hear a genuine inquiry from you! Challenge yourself. I reward initiative! Tell me what brought you to my profile - as long as you have a real photo with your own face clearly visible, you are guaranteed the courtesy of a friendly reply. I always enjoy hearing from someone respectful, and who knows how to write well - especially if you have a sweet smile!

Impressed? Intimidated? Incredulous? Incensed? Who do I think I am? You've got questions? I've got answers. New friends are always welcome! Please come back soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Lately I'm improving my home, learning new languages and looking for travel opportunities...I visited Nova Scotia this summer and hopefully Montana before long. Oh, and probably a little shopping too. ;)
I’m really good at
Cooking fresh food and desserts. I'd much rather cook at home than eat out! (Quite frankly, my own food is better and healthier.) It's a big reason that I haven't added any weight since my high school football days. (Of course, I was a wide receiver so I didn't exactly start big.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I wish I could say it were my good looks, but I know better. Perhaps my polished appearance? Sometimes it's my sense of style!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading is a passion...history, theology, romance are always winners. I'm a classic movie aficionado, and I enjoy wonderful stories with happy endings. And I frequently listen to satellite radio frequency XM 39 - think Ratt, Scorpions and Def Leppard.
The six things I could never do without
Books, food, flowers, music, lip balm, closet space
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I came to be soft, gentle and tender.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually home with a good book or DVD, or maybe taking a long walk
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I occasionally take burlesque dancing classes - feather boa and all! Come join me sometime. (As you can see, I try not to take myself too seriously! Life's not about me.)
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
...you're intrigued by what you've seen and read so far, you're willing to risk having your horizons broadened, you aren't scandalized that I know the difference between lipstick and lip gloss, you enjoy a rich voice with an extensive vocabulary, you ultimately aspire to married life (as opposed to a wonderfully vague "relationship"), and you're up for a challenge.

So how about meeting at a public garden or a bookstore - someplace where we can actually sit and talk for a while?