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softlord

30 / M / straight / Single

Astoria, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am clever, a good dancer, and you should IM me.

My Self-Summary

Greetings and salutations! I'm Jeremy. Who are you? :)

I grew up with hippie artist parents, so much of my mindset is based around creativity and not being limited to one path or way to interact.

I am curious (i.e. a reader), a good listener of people and music, and am trying my best to be kind and open-minded. I value above all those communicators that bring a warmth, compassion, humor and interest to their work. A few great examples of this are Jim Henson, Neil Finn and Alton Brown, each of whom have added to my life immeasurably, and I am very grateful.

I live in Astoria and am always open to connecting with new brunch-and-conversation partners. I think people need to be better to each other, by and large. So, if you see me on the street, smile back!

What I’m doing with my life

Working toward living it without judgment or attachment to thought or emotion, past or future. How'm I doing so far?

My job is at a communications company helping clients get their minds around digital strategy social media tactics as a tool to provide awesome experiences to their audience. Yeah I love it.

I’m really good at

Finding yummy-sounding recipes and then deciding to go out for dinner, oversharing, listening, recommending music you might like, being interested, telling stories, making muppet references in everyday conversation.

I want to learn improv. Take me to a class!

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile or my ass, like everyone else on this site.

Oh also that I'm not wearing any pants.

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A-B) Almost Famous. All things Muppet, Aaron Sorkin, Joss Whedon, Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, David Mamet.

(C) AC/DC, Aimee Mann, Alice in Chains, Ambulance, Andy Moor, Anna Nalick, Angela McCluskey, Annie Lennox, Ari Hest, Ben Folds, Bill Evans, Billy Joel, The Blue Nile, Burial, The Cardigans, Carole King, Frederyk Chopin, Concrete Blonde, Crowded House, The Cure, Curve, Daft Punk, David Bowie, Decoder Ring, Dream Academy, Dream Theater, Echo and the Bunnymen, Etta James, Everything but the Girl, Filter, Foo Fighters, Free, Gabriel and Dresden, Graeme Revell, Ida, Imogen Heap, Joe Raposo, Kelly Clarkson, Lacuna Coil, Lamb, Louis Jordan, Louis Prima, Love Spit Love, M83, Markus Schulz, Massive Attack, Matchbox Twenty, Mercury Rev, Thomas Newman, Pete Rock, Pharcyde, The Pretenders, Psychedelic Furs, Rob Zombie, RZA, Santigold, School of Seven Bells, Sigur Ros, Social Distortion, Spoon, The Sundays, Talk Talk, Tears for Fears, Thomas Newman, Tom Petty, Trashcan Sinatras, Travis, A Tribe Called Quest, Underworld, The Verve, Vivaldi, Wayne, The Weepies... Yeah, I'm eclectic (i'm also softlord on last.fm)

(D) Sushi, Thai food (especially that spicy brown noodle dish, and the cooked mango over sticky rice), Golden Grahams, Godiva cocoa, homemade baked ziti when the cheese is a little burned so it has a crispy crunchy shell on it, paper-thin slices of prosciutto, chewy oatmeal cookies, and many others.

The six things I could never do without

Beauty, kindness, wisdom, connection, and two pieces of White Tuna Sashimi.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

- Not living in thoughts
- Love peace and grease
- Music as inspiration
- Stories
- Whether I should change my handle on here, just so people dont keep getting the wrong idea and calling me Master (I mean, get to know me first!)

Also, why that pants thing is just so gosh darned funny.

On a typical Friday night I am

NetFlix or a walk. Please to drop me a line on any of the major IM services (I'm always on all of 'em as JeremyMeyersFTW). I'm pretty much down for whatever, especially entertaining discourse.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

See the aforementioned pants thing. What, is two callbacks too many?

It secretly bothers me when people misspell "Rihanna".

When I'm browsing OKC, I always click on profiles that are listed as "kinkier" or "hornier" in a quest to find the horniest and kinkiest person on the entire site, just to see what they're like.

Sometimes I like to be the little spoon.

You should message me if

If you're on a path, if you smile back, if you try not to let this city wear you down, if you enjoy Fozzie, if you seek connection. If you like to cook and be cooked for, if you have your shit together to know that nobody really has their shit together. If the pants thing amused you (FOUR!); If you DIDN'T put "if I told you, it wouldn't be private" in the "The most private thing I'm willing to admit here." field or complain about the length of the "about me" section. Funny girls are the best.

If you are compelled to say hi, say hi :)

Also if you are Elena from Ace of Cakes, you are my dream girl.