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softlord
30 / M / straight / Single
Astoria, New York
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 6' 1" (1.85m).
- Body Type
- —
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- —
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Buddhism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Taurus and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- —
- Job
- Entertainment / Media
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am clever, a good dancer, and you should IM me.
My Self-Summary
I grew up with hippie artist parents, so much of my mindset is based around creativity and not being limited to one path or way to interact.
I am curious (i.e. a reader), a good listener of people and music, and am trying my best to be kind and open-minded. I value above all those communicators that bring a warmth, compassion, humor and interest to their work. A few great examples of this are Jim Henson, Neil Finn and Alton Brown, each of whom have added to my life immeasurably, and I am very grateful.
I live in Astoria and am always open to connecting with new brunch-and-conversation partners. I think people need to be better to each other, by and large. So, if you see me on the street, smile back!
What I’m doing with my life
My job is at a communications company helping clients get their minds around digital strategy social media tactics as a tool to provide awesome experiences to their audience. Yeah I love it.
I’m really good at
I want to learn improv. Take me to a class!
The first things people usually notice about me
Oh also that I'm not wearing any pants.
Editors
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(C) AC/DC, Aimee Mann, Alice in Chains, Ambulance, Andy Moor, Anna Nalick, Angela McCluskey, Annie Lennox, Ari Hest, Ben Folds, Bill Evans, Billy Joel, The Blue Nile, Burial, The Cardigans, Carole King, Frederyk Chopin, Concrete Blonde, Crowded House, The Cure, Curve, Daft Punk, David Bowie, Decoder Ring, Dream Academy, Dream Theater, Echo and the Bunnymen, Etta James, Everything but the Girl, Filter, Foo Fighters, Free, Gabriel and Dresden, Graeme Revell, Ida, Imogen Heap, Joe Raposo, Kelly Clarkson, Lacuna Coil, Lamb, Louis Jordan, Louis Prima, Love Spit Love, M83, Markus Schulz, Massive Attack, Matchbox Twenty, Mercury Rev, Thomas Newman, Pete Rock, Pharcyde, The Pretenders, Psychedelic Furs, Rob Zombie, RZA, Santigold, School of Seven Bells, Sigur Ros, Social Distortion, Spoon, The Sundays, Talk Talk, Tears for Fears, Thomas Newman, Tom Petty, Trashcan Sinatras, Travis, A Tribe Called Quest, Underworld, The Verve, Vivaldi, Wayne, The Weepies... Yeah, I'm eclectic (i'm also softlord on last.fm)
(D) Sushi, Thai food (especially that spicy brown noodle dish, and the cooked mango over sticky rice), Golden Grahams, Godiva cocoa, homemade baked ziti when the cheese is a little burned so it has a crispy crunchy shell on it, paper-thin slices of prosciutto, chewy oatmeal cookies, and many others.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Love peace and grease
- Music as inspiration
- Stories
- Whether I should change my handle on here, just so people dont keep getting the wrong idea and calling me Master (I mean, get to know me first!)
Also, why that pants thing is just so gosh darned funny.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
It secretly bothers me when people misspell "Rihanna".
When I'm browsing OKC, I always click on profiles that are listed as "kinkier" or "hornier" in a quest to find the horniest and kinkiest person on the entire site, just to see what they're like.
Sometimes I like to be the little spoon.
You should message me if
If you are compelled to say hi, say hi :)
Also if you are Elena from Ace of Cakes, you are my dream girl.