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36 • Atlanta, GA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Buddhism, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Entertainment / Media
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Livin' life like I've already said "Beetlejuice" twice.
I also make kickass brownies. Fudgy, not cakey. If you're lucky, I'll make you some.
Inspired by Jim Henson, Groucho Marx, Amy Poehler, Laci Green and Alton Brown.
In an open relationship. Also looking for kickass friends to invite to dinner parties.
I'm a feminist because women are awesome and get treated disgustingly by society and also because what society tells us men "should be" is pretty abhorrent, and the success of feminism addresses both of these things in that order.
I have a freelance biz aimed at creating online audio and video telling the stories behind how things came to be. Also I make websites for small organizations, because restaurant and B&B websites are the worst with their flash intros and music playing and nonsense.
When it's nice out, I take my fancy (Canon) DSLR out and take pictures of whatever happens to catch my eye.
Attempting to stay on the right side of the war between getting into better shape (walking 3-4 miles almost every day) and perfecting my baking skills. Want some cookies?
I play a bunch of instruments with varying degrees of skill, and was an DJ of 80s music in New York for a bunch of years.
Movies. My all time favorite movie (at the moment is Almost Famous). I love all things Muppet (while Jim/Jerry were still alive), and documentaries about food. Feel free to make me watch them, though I've already seen Jiro Dreams of Sushi.
Music. last.fm says my most played artists are Crowded House, Apparat, The Weepies, A Tribe Called Quest and David Bowie. I suppose that's a start. (softlord is my name on there if you're curious for more). If you have bands on your list that I haven't heard, I will listen and I will message you about them. It's pretty rare that it happens, though. :)
Podcasts. Harmontown, Comedy Bang! Bang!, Tara Brach.
TV Shows. The West Wing, 3-2-1 Contact, NewsRadio, Everwood, Better Off Ted, BritComs. Those pretty much sum me up. Currently: GoT (like everyone else), Parks and Recreation, Broad City, Black-Ish, @midnight, Kroll Show.
Food. Sushi, Thai food, Golden Grahams, dark chocolate (milk chocolate is BS. Seriously, what is that stuff?), homemade baked ziti when the cheese is a little burned so it has a crispy crunchy shell on it, paper-thin slices of prosciutto, chewy oatmeal cookies.
- Tea (Find me on Steepster.)
- Hugs (I am an awesome hugger.)
- The half-second before a first kiss
- Slow deep breaths
- Wordplay and silliness.
YAY: If you're on a path. If you smile back. If you're silly and enjoy mischief. If you like to cook and be cooked for. If you have your shit together enough to know that nobody really has their shit together. If you wanna talk monogamy and non-monogamy. If you're interested in making a new friend-maybe-flirting-partner-maybe-makeout-partner-maybe-more.
BOO: If you put "if I told you, it wouldn't be private" in the "The most private thing I'm willing to admit here." field or complain about the length of the "about me" section. Come on now.
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