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softspokentoyou

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taken early October 2014 week before My 'friends' pic

Christmas Day with my charming niece :)

Goatee or not goatee? that is the question. :) Dec 2013 and have grown again for winter.

My photo :) taken Oct.6 2013, at Native American Circle Celebration. Don't wear face paint usually

Circle gathering Oct. 6, 2013 My daughter made me lose the baggy jeans and carabiner key chain...

April 2013 kids have told me to lose the black socks next time. I am about 15 lbs lighter than the pic now.

me and two new friends i was with this past holiday...to be honest they have no depth, all surface