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sojournarbiter

24 M Indianapolis, IN

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If I could pin down the one thing that influences me most, I'd have to say music. I hardly care what the subject matter is, the beat, whether it's old or new, or even what the language is, music is my definition and my expression.

Most who meet me think I'm a constant comedian, trying to make the room ring with laughter, and getting faces to glow with smiles. Once you get to know me, you'll find that humor is one of my main motivators, I love to laugh and make others laugh.
Not only is laughter and joy a blessing, it's the best medicine, a way to bring people closer together, and dammit, it's the only way to really live life, people!

I don't spend my time coming up with one-liners and puns, I just take joy, laughter, and fun with me wherever I go and try to bring it to others.
Sometimes I explain the funny right out if a joke, or make the big mistake of trying to explain inside jokes, but once I find where your sense of humor lies I'll be sure to make you laugh often and loudly!

I am a constant ponderer, always thinking on my feet, adding to ideas that are years old, trying to improve successful ideas, drawing my own out of thin air and trying to make them real. Anything that causes mental stagnation is the death of me because I think a million miles a minute, and doing nothing for hours on end is torture when all I want to do is put the things flying through my head onto paper. Say no to mental stagnation!
That means you: political debates, pointless drama arguments, contemporary theater, traffic jams, commercials, work (but thanks for the money!), reality TV, religious debates, and all the like!

I'm looking for someone to match me in ways, challenge me in others, and add to me in many more ways than I can even fathom right now. I'm looking for someone who takes a relationship seriously, and isn't in it for kicks and giggles. I like someone who is confident but not to the point of bullheadedness and becoming unwilling to see another side of something or do something a different way. I'm turned on by someone with a good sense of humor, a taste for the arts and sciences, and willing to go with the flow and have fun.

I'm looking for a girl who loves wearing nail polish, a girl who loves dancing, (and maybe even singing and kissing!) in the rain, a girl who's just as happy staying in and watching a movie as going out to the zoo, a concert, comedy club, museum, or adventure. I'm looking for a girl with an infectious smile and laugh, who is fun to be around, but can also hold a serious intellectual conversation. I'm looking for a girl who loves to read, loves to sing even if they're not good at it, someone who loves music and art and all the beautiful things the world has to offer, I'm looking for someone that's open-minded and loves to talk, and discuss things, not just say "That was a good movie" or "I liked that book," but conversation that has real meaning. I'm looking for someone who can be a giant goofball with me at home, or with friends, who is confident and knows where they're going, and wants to make me a part of their life. I'm looking for just that right special someone...message me if you want to find out more!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
'Second year' college student, working and schooling part time.
Unlike everyone else, I'm content staying in Indiana...everyone else can't seem to wait to get out, the only place I'd think about moving to other than within Indiana is South Carolina. Right now I'm working on finishing my major and getting a real job, looking to 'settle down' in an apartment somewhere, live with someone I'd like to make a part of my life for the rest of my life for a few years, then settle down for real.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being sarcastic.
Making people laugh.
Holding serious discussions, except politics. Note, that arguments over fictional lore from movies and video games also counts as serious discussions.
Vidya games, but, I'm a guy, let's be honest, I know you expected that.
Having adventures.
Laughing my ass off at any funny dog and or bear images I can find on the interwebs. Holy shit. I can not get enough.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The fact that my indoor voice is equal to three regular people's outdoor voices combined.

My big smile or my bigger laugh.

My awesome riding cap, don't hate.

Someone said dimples?

That I'm cracking way too many jokes.

You tell me when we meet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I HOPE YOU LIKE LISTS
Movies -
Primer, TRON: Legacy, most of the PotC movies, Clockwork Orange, Lorax, Limitless, RENT, Hobbit, The Thing, Funny Games, Wreck it Ralph, most of the Transformers movies, Super 8, Drive, the Star Trek reboot, Eternal Sunshine, Hellboy, Donnie Darko(!!!), Skyline, Serenity, The Forgotten, most of the Terminators, Avengers, Thor, Iron Man, LotR, a lot lot lot more, I'll add some in.

TV -
HIMYM (this is a TOTAL dealbreaker), Community, Firefly (dealbreaker), Alphas, Heroes, The Office, Mythbusters, Dresden Files, X-Files, Battlestar Galactica (if you've seen the whole series we MUST DISCUSS IT), The IT Crowd, Scrubs, King of the Hill, Spongebob (don't hate), Numb3rs, Eureka, Arrested Development, Psych (one of my all time favorites), Lie to Me, Futurama, Family Guy, Grey's Anatomy, Monk, Mad Men, Burn Notice, Being Human, White Collar, Star Trek, Supernatural, Walking Dead, American Dad, Spaced, Doctor Who, Workaholics, Glee, Breaking Bad, South Park, Twilight Zone, Star Trek TNG, this is not the end of the list, just where I decided to stop listing things.

Music -
I can't even begin to list all of my favorite artists.
Classic rock is my favorite genre. I have a few guilty pleasures, usually in the form of artists that most guys won't admit to liking.
I'll list things as I think of them.
Queen, Zeppelin, AC/DC, The Who, Strokes, Black Keys, Jimmy Buffett, Eric Clapton, Rolling Stones, Beatles, RHCP, Floyd, some Green Day, Aerosmith, Offspring, Weezer, Guns n' Roses, Dire Straits, the Police, there's a shit ton more but, you'll just have to ask. The current list is in no way a complete and accurate representation of my musical tastes, I like such a wide variety of music, my favorite is simply classic rock. Message me if you have suggestions!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends.
Books.
Video games.
Internet (for fun AND for learning).
Organs.
The ability to break the rules by adding 7 things I could never do without instead of 6.
All 5 senses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
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Flood detected.
Information overload.
Resetting.
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No, but seriously, I like never stop thinking. Ever.
One day I'm going to think myself to death.

I really can't pin down the one thing except for the future, where I want to be, who I want to be with, and what I want to be doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently?
Working.

Ideally?
Cruising without a destination, adventures with friends, ditching the GPS and driving away with someone and getting so lost that I should be worried, spontaneous roadtrips, being with someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I secretly believe this questions was put here to root out terrorists, murderers, and liberals.

Nah, if you want to know something private just ask, there's a message button, go on, do it!
You should message me if
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You want to live.

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Feel free to say hello!

But really, if you're looking for a fun, caring, genuine guy who's interested in dating and or a long term relationship, and you think we'll get along famously, well, send me a message, and may the odds be ever in your favor!