I am consensually/ethically non-monogamous. ninabanya has been my partner since our first year of college and we live together with two cats and a rabbit. I'm ass over tits for my boyfriend random0ne too. My cup runneth over!
[Side effect of that is I'm generally pretty busy, both in time and emotion, and don't always respond in the most timely fashion. I'm not looking to date anyone new, at the moment, either.]
My love is not controlled by gender (sex, race, etc). It is larger than prejudice. It is larger than indifference. I find joy and beauty in loving without boundaries. (bonus points if you know where that's from!) I identify as queer not bisexual (fuck the gender binary), but it's the closest option here on OkC. I am a switch interested in all aspects of BDSM. I may not be into doing everything that normally falls under the umbrella of BDSM, but I have an open mind and I really like learning about what people really enjoy and why. I have few hard limits; things change greatly over time I've learned.
I am an atheist and a sex-positive feminist.
I'm a geo* nerd; I like rocks and maps. My interests encompass the sciences in general. I may not understand everything, but I enjoy learning and listening to people talk about what they know.
I like books and movies a whole lot particularly in the science fiction and recently, the horror genres. I listen to a whole lot of less-than-conventional jazz; Happy Apple, The Bad Plus, Fat Kid Wednesday and the like. Music in general makes me very happy.