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58 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm smart, solid and stable with a brush stroke of the wild. What I love: adventures, spontaneity, great wine, travel, the sun just above the ocean horizon, Big Sur, the Actor's Gang Theater, Apple Pan, Paris, old friends, getting off an airplane. I walk daily. I love smart women.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a spectacular son, 20, who I ADORE. He's a junior at Oberlin College. I've published several novels and am working fiercely finishing a new book. My first novel is going into film production and principal photography begins in October 2014 on Malta. I write book reviews and some editorials for the LA Times. I also invest in start up companies. I enjoy the hike to the waterfall in Temescal Canyon, hang out at the cafe at Akasha in Culver City. This past summer I planted more flowers and fruit trees in my yard and I'm seeing both the gentle flap of butterflies and the accelerated wings of hummingbirds. I've just begun to practice Mindfulness at Insight LA.
I’m really good at
Admitting faults and seeing through the tangle of a problem to its center. And laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I say what's on my mind. That I'm generous in all forms and prize common sense. For example, I absolutely do not care if you can wear blue jeans or a short black dress with equal ease; I've yet to meet a woman who could not change clothes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Jennifer Egan, TC Boyle, Jonathan Franzen, Michael Chabon, John Le Carre, The New Yorker, NY Times, HBO and Showtime series, Mad Men, The Good Wife, Homeland, Game of Thrones, indie rock, 60s anything, jazz, documentaries, classical, humming. I like a wide variety of foods, buy at Farmers markets , fresh fish and organic chicken and meat though I eat very little red meat.
The six things I could never do without
Love. Laughter. Books. My kid. Hope. Cookies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All kinds of things. Many different things are on my mind at various times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for something atypical to do. Or put another way, if I'm with someone I adore who cares what we're doing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'm looking for a terrific love and a long term permanent relationship. Until that happens, short term? Sure.