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58 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm smart, solid and stable with a brush stroke of the wild. What I love: adventures, spontaneity, great wine, travel, the sun just above the ocean horizon, Big Sur, the Actor's Gang Theater, Apple Pan, Paris, old friends, getting off an airplane. I walk daily. I love smart women.
What I’m doing with my life
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My novel, The Damascus Cover, starts principal photography in Casablanca in January starring Jonathan Rhys Myers. I'm going for a week and have a small role in the film which is too fun. I have a spectacular son, 21, who I ADORE. He's a senior at college in the Midwest. I enjoy the hike to the waterfall in Temescal Canyon, hang out at the cafe at Akasha in Culver City. This past summer I planted more flowers and fruit trees in my yard and I'm seeing both the gentle flap of butterflies and the accelerated wings of hummingbirds. I've just begun to practice Mindfulness at Insight LA.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Admitting faults and seeing through the tangle of a problem to its center. And laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I say what's on my mind. That I'm generous in all forms and prize common sense. For example, I absolutely do not care if you can wear blue jeans or a short black dress with equal ease; I've yet to meet a woman who could not change clothes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Jennifer Egan, TC Boyle, Jonathan Franzen, Michael Chabon, John Le Carre, The New Yorker, NY Times, HBO and Showtime series, Mad Men, The Good Wife, Homeland, Game of Thrones, indie rock, 60s anything, jazz, documentaries, classical, humming. I like a wide variety of foods, buy at Farmers markets , fresh fish and organic chicken and meat though I eat very little red meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love. Laughter. Books. My kid. Hope. Cookies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All kinds of things. Many different things are on my mind at various times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for something atypical to do. Or put another way, if I'm with someone I adore who cares what we're doing.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for a terrific love and a long term permanent relationship. Until that happens, short term? Sure.