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42 M Tucson, AZ

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I'm an easy-going, fun loving, affectionate and an intelligent man who has his sh*t together…. = )
I’m really good at

I'm filling up, I'm brimming
Got no cup to make it full
Instead I think I am the cup
I just fill it up with you
But "you" is a misnomer
More like "they" or "us" or "them"
They contemplate me often
I can feel it from within

I haven't found a way to be
With the one defined as "one"
So I've put myself into multiples
And get to know the sum
All of them together
Make a perfect pair for me
But I cannot wait
Until "they"
Fall away
And the sum become a She

Together they are perfect
They are all I'd hope she'd be
They're always so attentive
And make the time for me
Instant answer to text messages
The first to "like" my poem
on FB
OH If only I could find a way
To make the them - a She

Sometimes that she I call a them
Will message me all day
I have a contiguous conversation
Spread out to my "she" array
I am the studied focal point
ALL their words come back to me
Looking from my vantage point
I really get to talk to She

One of them is self deprecating
Suffers unrequited Love
With her I so identify
But I cannot be enough

One seems to like self-torture
She denies her needs each day
She plans on being happy
By the time she's old and gray

One's so smart she scares me
And if conversation was all to love
Then she'd surely be the one for me
But a brain is not enough

One's overflowing with her sex
But says she can't be my
"Better Half"
And though I'd like to know her sex
I'm afraid I've had to pass

One just wants to stay at home
And raise a happy family
My jury's out on this one
But perhaps with time
We'll see.

I know that I am malleable
I could fit with any She
I'd adapt myself to suit her needs
If she were the one for me
But I know I should be cautious
Have no more time to make mistakes
Only want to find my one true love
So I'm careful for her sake

Somehow I have managed
In this choral cacophony
To find a little bit of hope
Toward the place I'd like to be
In the end it's her decision
She'll see what she wants in me
I'll look back and know moreover
That I finally found my SHE
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors & Books: Daniel Quinn – especially Ishmael, that book will change your life… Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha is a big favorite... Kurt Vonnegut, I've read slaughterhouse five at least 20 times… Camus -The plague, the stranger... Neil Gaiman - American gods... The complete works of Zechariah Sitchin, Karen Armstrong – master of comparative religion! Aldous Huxley, especially the perennial philosophy – it's a great book but you need a dictionary and thesaurus… (be warned!) if I listed authors, we would be here all day...
Movies: fight club, anything Tarantino, fifth element, twelve monkeys, snatch, lock stock and two smoking barrels, just saw "Her" – It was fantastic! Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, being John Malkovich, essentially anything by Charlie Kaufman... The list goes on…
Music: is like breathing… the list is endless – but anything by Maynard James Keenan, The pixies, cage the elephant, Nahko and medicine for the people, NIN, Saul Williams, Cloud Cult, Portishead... I became a music enthusiast in my teens and spent most of my 20s working for MTV – I love music and I'm always looking for something new…
Food – I'll try just about anything…
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends
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