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40 San Francisco, CA Woman


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  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:52pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from med school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a native New Yorker who used to think San Francisco was the land of the lotus-eaters but has now seen the light and calls the Bay area my true home.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a career in medicine that combines seeing patients with teaching doctors-in-training. I'm one of those lucky people who can honestly say that I love my job and the people I get to work with. When I'm not working, which thankfully is a decent amount of time, I'm outside doing something active in this gorgeous corner of the world. I'm still awed by things like the fog, the headlands or the smell of honeysuckle on every corner.

What else am I doing with my life lately.... I spend a lot of my free time with friends doing things outside. I just spend 3 weeks in Southern Africa for hiking, safari, wine tasting, and seeing friends. I do a fair amount of yoga. I have quite possibly the best dog in the world. Her happiest zones are digging rocks at the beach (she's really good at it) and snuggling on the couch (which she can do for hours on end).

I'm attracted to people who are genuine, adventurous, and know how to laugh it all off. I'm a "glass half full" person and like to focus on what's working, what's to be appreciated, and what good things the future holds. Not that I don't read the paper or watch the news. But I have a healthy dose of optimism despite it all and connect with people who have the same outlook.
I’m really good at
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Making people feel listened to
Packing a lot of fun into a day
Channeling my inner seven year old
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Antonia's Line, Slumdog Millionaire, Bridesmaids, To Kill a Mockingbird, Exit Through the Gift Shop

Books/magazines: The New Yorker, the Atlantic, the NYT (can only really get through the weekends), lots of professional magazines that I actually like reading, the Adventures of Cavalier and Clay, the Social Animal, anything by Doris Kearns Goodwin, just about to start the Corrections

Food: the dark chocolate sorbet at the Ice Cream Bar, the shaved ice at Namu Gaji, the tea leaf salad at Burma Superstar, any kind of stone fruit

Shows: Wait Wait Don't Tell Me & This American Life, Modern Family, 7 minutes in Heaven (is that a show?), The Daily Show, just started watching some Girls and can relate to the Brooklyn thing, does anyone male or female NOT have a crush on Justin Timberlake after his fifth good SNL?

Music: Feist, Michael Franti, Ben Harper, Lauryn Hill, Ryan Adams, Patty Griffin, Shawn Colvin, Eva Cassidy, Fleetwood Mac, to name a few
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Green, living things
My dog
Dark dark chocolate
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
meeting friends for drinks & dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to be afraid of cows.
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A capital G good guy.