Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're real & sincere.
You're more than an internet profile. You are tired of non-stop
questions that will miraculously lead you to the one through some
computer generated love algorithm. Somewhere at OKC I'm sure there
are two computers dry humping each other, virus free and have
committed to only working together for life.... but we are not
Let's get back to being human....humane. Let's put the personal
touch back into dating regardless of how we met initially.
Honesty, integrity, morals and ethics, and a great sense of humor
are a great place to start.
You know monogamy is not a wood or the Japanese art of folding
paper into little animals. It is a standard you live by and is as
much a part of you as your personality - ingrained into your
You are a man. Not a gay man. Meaning: You don't need to surround
yourself by ONLY gay people and the women who love gay people
religiously. You recoginize your sexuality and are comfortable with
it without making it who you are first as a person.
You don't enjoy the weho club life. You work and want someone with
whom to share and build something substantial and solid.
You are not a game player. You say what you mean and do what you
You are sincere, honest, witty, funny. You are not selfish, rude or
arrogant. You care about yourself and caring about others comes
naturally to you.
You are HIV negative and only practice safer sex. You respect your
health and the health of the one with whom you're intimate.
That's a good start - or maybe a good finish! We'll see how well
this goes. I'm holding out hope, but not holding my breath.
Are you out there?