Honesty is one of my biggest things, I hate lies and find there's no point, it hurts someone, it makes you look like an ass and always brings about drama which i have enough of in work life :P.
I'm the type of guy that needs some kinda connection, so i always enjoy meeting up for coffee or a drink or two and just talk, no pressure atmosphere and friendly chat is something I truly love. That said I'm not seeking to replace my wife I love her very much and have no plans to leave her, I do enjoy having some fun with another women, I don't know it's something new, exciting and fun for everyone I guess, I suppose I'm a lucky man as my wife understands I haven't had much experience with other people as we started going out when I was 17 and she was 18, I never really dated anyone before her and we we're really good friends to start.
What I seek is just new experiences, new friends, a girl that's as kinky as I can be and would like to explore different things safely in a more long term friends with benefits type of situation, if something more comes of that then my wife and I have discussed that we would work that out with said individual(s). Would be awesome if we could find a woman or couple that we could have a fun relationship with and openly talk to.
please feel free to mail me and ask me anything very open too chat.