Originally from a small town just NE of Lubbock Tx. Laid back, mellow, dependable, responsible, caring, loving, compassionate, smart, witty and over all easy to get along with. Family is important, as my parents grew older and I lost my dad, it changed my life once again. We really are one generation away from living life out on our own as John Mayer wrote. I find that is coming closer to fruition as the days pass.

Just working. Saving my vacation/timebank days for my family that are most important in my life. Although that doesn't leave a lot of time for my own vacation time, I'd rather save it to take care of my parents and family in time of need. That helped me be with my dad for at least a month while my father was slowly leaving us. My ex would have never let me do that..... Being there was worth a thousand vacations. A choice that is not cared by many ladies/guys I know nowadays. If you are selfish enough to not care about your family or your partners family...you are not for me.

Listening. Making the best of a bad situation. Calming chaos at work.

Music..Music..Music... with main love as slow R&B new and old but I love all music no matter what. Have a ton of artists I love to play on guitar as well. TV? "So you think you can dance" I've watched every season and its amazing how some routine can bring you to tears. Can't get enough of Ghost hunting shows...cheezy I know but cool in my book. Movies? Indies for sure but overall "Splendor in the Grass and This Property is Condemned" both Natalie Wood movies from years back. Wish I could find someone that has that look in their eyes when looking back at me. Some scenes in "Fools Rush In" will never leave me. New favorite songs to play on acoustic guitar "Sleeping to dream" & "I wont give up" mainly the live versions by Jason mraz.

God, family, my guitar, a job, my sense of humor and well the last thing is the whole reason i am on a dang online dating site.

How sites, scents and most especially music can take you back in time within just a few notes. Sometimes good sometime bad..it's amazing. Really shocks me how many non-religious and atheists are on these online dating site. It's scary what the world is coming too. Lastly all these people that put so much emphasis on finding the perfect good looking people? They need to visit a childrens hospital to get some perspective on how your health and life in general is a blessing not an entitlement. Praying for all the lost souls out there....

Home practicing guitar or out eating somewhere alone. Unless it's with a buddy.

I miss my son with all my heart and soul. I know I should have written this earlier but I'm not into tatoos on ladies. Sorry I didnt mention that earlier.

If you enjoy romance, chivalry and old- fashioned respect. Opening doors for a lady gives me a sense of purpose... I don't get many msgs at all across 3 dang dating sites so I don't think this will matter anyhow but I am looking for someone nice and sweet. I can't stand big mouthed blunt mean people. Life is to short to treat people like that.