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somethingisaid

41 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Looking for a guy with a good face - who knows how to kiss and is funny (but not funnier than me). Whose profile doe not start with "Laid back guy here..." or "Down to earth, chill guy..." A dude who gets along with his family but doesn't want to spend every weekend with them (or a well adjusted orphan). Someone who has the perfect balance of shame and optimism when it comes to online dating - who when asked will lie and tell my friends that we met at a party or in a Spanish class. Someone who has access to a cottage or will at least will go camping is a strong plus.

I have a crazy Scottish family in a small town (friendly hillbillies) a few hours away which I try to see on occasion - mostly holidays. My friends are good - I feel the love.

My work makes me happy - generally. Although sometimes I wonder if I'm doing the right thing. One time I went to Thailand and almost didn't came back - I met all these folks from around the globe living in grass huts on the beach. They taught snorkeling to fat Europeans; read Tarot cards and glued shells onto decorative boxes - it seems idyllic. I though for a minute I would maybe stay and braid tourists' hair - possible learn how to weave hemp hammocks. But after several weeks I realized I was hanging with a bunch of delusional drug addicts - all like myself running from reality. I still keep in touch with some of them.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to move towards something good. I work in TV - researching, writing, directing, producing.

I want to do more but lack discipline - should write more, travel more, clean my place more, and maybe get a dog. I'm working on it.
I’m really good at
talking smack - making people feel comfortable - listening and remembering (not always a favorable trait) - telling stories (true and made up) - writing (clearly by my incredibly gripping profile) - cooking (mostly pedestrian homey type things - but yummy) kissing (seriously love kissing and try to practice all the time).
The first things people usually notice about me
My enormous face - like a beacon that guides crazy people to the table i'm sitting at quietly trying to read (secretly hoping sane people will think i'm the quiet intelligent type).

Usually people notice I am kind of funny and have a big smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of everything - Franny and Zooey, The last Station, Cass McCombs, cabbage rolls. but open to change at any minute.
On a typical Friday night I am
generally with friends deciding to eat or drink first or at the same time - and where?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
none of your damn business!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't have to be a comic genius but definitely have to know how to laugh.
If you are single and not into a polyamory or any kind of bizarre multi-lover cult.
If you want to be friends (who occasionally make-out)
I'm also kind of looking for a boyfriend - there I said it! (corny?)