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41 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
Looking for a guy with a good face - who knows how to kiss and is funny (but not funnier than me). Whose profile doe not start with "Laid back guy here..." or "Down to earth, chill guy..." A dude who gets along with his family but doesn't want to spend every weekend with them (or a well adjusted orphan). Someone who has the perfect balance of shame and optimism when it comes to online dating - who when asked will lie and tell my friends that we met at a party or in a Spanish class. Someone who has access to a cottage or will at least will go camping is a strong plus.

I have a crazy Scottish family in a small town (friendly hillbillies) a few hours away which I try to see on occasion - mostly holidays. My friends are good - I feel the love.

My work makes me happy - generally. Although sometimes I wonder if I'm doing the right thing. One time I went to Thailand and almost didn't came back - I met all these folks from around the globe living in grass huts on the beach. They taught snorkeling to fat Europeans; read Tarot cards and glued shells onto decorative boxes - it seems idyllic. I though for a minute I would maybe stay and braid tourists' hair - possible learn how to weave hemp hammocks. But after several weeks I realized I was hanging with a bunch of delusional drug addicts - all like myself running from reality. I still keep in touch with some of them.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to move towards something good. I work in TV - researching, writing, directing, producing.

I want to do more but lack discipline - should write more, travel more, clean my place more, and maybe get a dog. I'm working on it.
I’m really good at
talking smack - making people feel comfortable - listening and remembering (not always a favorable trait) - telling stories (true and made up) - writing (clearly by my incredibly gripping profile) - cooking (mostly pedestrian homey type things - but yummy) kissing (seriously love kissing and try to practice all the time).
The first things people usually notice about me
My enormous face - like a beacon that guides crazy people to the table i'm sitting at quietly trying to read (secretly hoping sane people will think i'm the quiet intelligent type).

Usually people notice I am kind of funny and have a big smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of everything - Franny and Zooey, The last Station, Cass McCombs, cabbage rolls. but open to change at any minute.
On a typical Friday night I am
generally with friends deciding to eat or drink first or at the same time - and where?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
none of your damn business!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't have to be a comic genius but definitely have to know how to laugh.
If you are single and not into a polyamory or any kind of bizarre multi-lover cult.
If you want to be friends (who occasionally make-out)
I'm also kind of looking for a boyfriend - there I said it! (corny?)