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31 • New York, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 7
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
Does anyone else think this is just another online shopping site?
proviso: please do not email me blatantly sexual observations. I do not care how much you bench press. I do care about everything else. If you have a sense of humor and a modicum of intelligence, use it. Otherwise, I'm fair game. Giddyup.
Also: I make plays, publish articles, scan poetry well into the early hours and travel frequently. I'm working on the libretto for an opera. I'm working on a novel. I'm distracted by the concept of getting to work on time. And because I take the train that can be a problem.
James Agee, Ashbery, Artaud, Berryman, Bernhard, Charles Bernstein (sometimes...), Elizabeth Bishop, Robin Blaser, Blake, Borges, Anne Bradstreet, Beckett, Brecht, Breton, Buchner, Burroughs, Hart Crane, Carson, Emily Dickenson, Kafka, Musil, Joyce, Seneca, Charles Olson, Alexander Poe, Woolf, Creeley, Chekhov, Shakespeare, Laura Riding, Sontag, Stein, Stevens, Walser, Williams, O'neill, Yeats...this is stupid. I like to read.
My favorite room is the periodicals room...I take 3 chairs and sit
all day with a stack of journals.
Music: Frank Zappa, Conlon Nancarrow, Noir Désir, Lou Reed, Alexis H.K. Nick Cave, David Bowie, Talking heads, beatles, rolling stones, pixies, meredith monk, Tom Waits, Ray Charles, Martha Argerich, Gidon Kremer, Sviatoslav Richter, monk, thelonious monk, bach, beethoven, mozart, ravel, boulez, international contemporary ensemble is just great...mario davidovsky, Astor Piazzolla, messiaen, ligeti, xenakis, berg, webern, schonberg, elvis, bartok, feldman, nono, cage, berio, scelsi, elliot carter, terry riley, pauline oliveros, la monte young, brian eno, david byrne, georges brassens, jacques brel, edith piaf, patsy cline, leonard cohen...this is also getting silly, uhn...mahalia jackson, michael jackson, simon & garfunkle, the doors, dylan, kinks, eric clapton (early stuff), uhn...cat stevens, nina simone, ella & louie; I'm going to stop there.
Also: must like cats. Must secretly want a cat for a girlfriend. ...I am that cat.
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