I am mischeveous, silly, and excited.
My Self-Summary
I studied Ecology and Evolutionary Biology, I love both topics, and
can talk your ear off about them. I think creationism, or ID, is a
joke, and that religion talk is beneath scientists. Richard Dawkins
drives me nuts, he's a pretentious ass. But his books about
evolution are amazing and I highly recommend them. I just don't
like the attitude of someone knowing there is no god, and being so
sure of themselves they think they can decide for everyone
else.
When I am not strictly wearing my scientist hat (and because
scientists, even evolutionary biologists, are humans too), I will
gladly discuss religion, the question of god, and the meaning of
life. I think it's fascinating, but I do apply sciency logic to my
ponderings about the divine. That is why I have discounted the
majority of organized religion, but there are some pretty awesome
oddball theories out there I might be able to get behind.
I am nearly wholly unmotivated by greed. Sure I have my dreams and
goals in life, including owning my own house, but it's nothing
extravagant. This somewhat ties in with my disdain for many humans
that I've gotten through my study of ecology/ environmentalism.
There are many many things that we do that harm the environment,
and harm ourselves, and there's no reason for it, other than it's
just habit, or it's built into this image of luxury that people
aspire to. In this case, there is no reason for 1-2 people to live
in a 5000 sq ft giganto mansion, furnish it, heat it, air condition
it, keep pests out, etc etc (not to mention build it), just to have
a place to store their crap. It's greedy and it's wasteful. And
yes, I know that Big Changes can't happen unless there are lots of
people behind them, and political will helps, but that's no excuse
to not to the right thing.
I am all about nature, even though I spend the majority of my time
in A/C. I love being outside, I grew up in the country, and love
natural history and am always trying to learn more. Being outside
lets me recharge my batteries. I love camping, fishing, hiking,
floating the river, wandering around on the wildlife refuge,
photographing whatever catches my eye, or basically any excuse to
get away from it all.
So I hope what you're seeing so far is that I am, like many people
on here claim to be, "a study in contrasts," but I think the easier
way to put that is that to some extent we are all hypocrites. Or at
the very least, inconsistent. I try not to be judgmental though: if
you don't agree with me on something, it *probably* won't hurt my
feelings. It is not so important for someone to agree with me as it
is for a person to have their own opinion about it. However, I
strongly believe that sharing ideas should take place respectfully,
and with an open mind; there is no way to know absolutely certainly
that you are right about something, there is always something that
isn't taken into account.
Oh and to reassure you, I am about 90% cute and cuddly,
mischievous, and adventuresome. It's just that the serious stuff
tends to get in the way more when interacting with people.
So if you've actually read this far, I'm sure we'd get along
fine.
Bonus: Put enough alcohol in me and I go on smile patrol, my
personal goal becomes cracking through the everyday shell we trap
ourselves in and making someone smile.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in a
DNA
sequencing lab by day and for
wedding photographers by
night (well, later-in-the-day). I want to go to grad school so that
I won't be doomed to be a lab tech for the rest of my live, but
change is daunting.
I’m really good at
constantly surprising people about me. One minute they think I'm
quiet and innocent, the next minute I'm getting uneasy glances at
my maniacal
giggling. People are either amazed that
I am intelligent or surprised I can be incessantly silly at times.
I relish those surprised looks that tend to get plastered on
people's faces around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
blue eyes? I guess you'd notice that if I suddenly appeared in
front of you about a foot away, but if you are watching me walk up
to you, you're (hopefully) seeing my smile and there's no way to
avoid taking in some curves.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
books:
anything by Robin McKinley,
Neil Gaiman, or
Nick Sagan; the
His Dark Materials
series,
Darwin's Radio,
Contact,
The Monkey Wrench
Gang, House of Leaves,
Omnivore's Dilemma,
Blink
movies-
The Dark
Knight, Iron Man,
Wall-E, Across the Universe,
Once, Iron Man, Adaptation,
Sicko, V for Vendetta, Sin City, Boondock Saints, Quills, Bowling
for Columbine,
American Beauty, Kill Bill 1
& 2, LOTR trilogy, X-Men (all of them), Hero, Eternal Sunshine
of the Spotless Mind, Pan's Labyrinth, Life of David Gale,
300, the 1st Matrix
only, Donnie Darko,
Primer,
Waking Life,
Secretary,
Perfume, Stardust, House of 1000
Corpses, Devil's Rejects,
Rocky Horror Picture
Show,lots more
TV- House,
Weeds,
Ramsey's Kitchen Nightmares, Futurama, True Blood
music-
Glen
Hansard, Boston,
Beatles, Rolling Stones, Perfect Circle,
Incubus, Porcupine
Tree,
Tool, Chevelle,
Maroon 5, Coheed and Cambria, Modest Mouse, System of a Down, Moxy
Fruvous, The Mars Volta, Psapp, Counting Crows, Ludo, hmmm lots of
others too
food- I did have a long list here, but really I like almost
anything, I am not too picky, and love trying new foods. What's
more important is whether you're willing to share, it's a waste
when more than one person at a table orders the same thing, why not
get something different and have a taste of everyone's?
BONUS! drinks- hot tea, iced tea, margarita, bloody mary, wine,
midori sour, limeade (limes are the source of my super secret super
powers, shh don't tell)
The six things I could never do without
a deck of
cards with
appropriate scoring implements, music, books, a
river to float down, stars, a sense
of smell
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how everything is
connected, and how if we could
understand just a fraction of those connections, we could
completely change our world as we know it.
On a typical Friday night I am
wondering what happened to typical Fridays.... lately I've been
going to happy hour with coworkers to celebrate the end of another
week, but after that, there is no telling where I am at or what I'm
doing. I am certainly open to fun suggestions though!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
One of the many interesting things about my life is that my mother
is a lesbian truck driver, and fits the stereotype pretty well. I
only mention it because if you really have some deep problem with
homosexuality, or favor any idea that infringes on a free person
making a decision about their life, we probably won't get along.
That's not to say we WON'T, though. If nothing else, I will
probably drive you nuts. :) Just warning you.
You should message me if
there is no if... message me!