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somewentmad

30 / F / Gay / Available

Hackney, United Kingdom

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:48pm
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm generally a happy and content little thing.

I enjoy people and how different and interesting 'we' all are so I am always looking to meet and make new friends for a whole host of interesting encounters.

Currently particularly interested in meeting people already in open relationships or those who are open to the idea of non-monogamy as a principle that can be a healthy thing in relationships. I'm presently trying out my first open relationship (with onmybike365) and it would be great to meet some like-minded thinkers.

More than happy to meet people in real life - not overly keen on endless messaging.

I am social, interested, interesting, a bit quirky, affectionately obnoxious, funny, smart, somewhat effortlessly charming and a genuine good egg and I'm seeking others for all sorts of antics.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a psychotherapist.
My job is ace.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, I think.
Or that I often look like I'm up to something.
Or that I'm funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Pop-Ups (long standing obsession for paper engineering) The Moomins, Edward Gorey, lots of design and aesthetics, lots of psychoanalytic stuff and then throw in a bit of Hubert Selby Jr. And Michael Cunningham.

Music: love the Canadian music scene, indie, folk, singer songwriter stuff, jazz, electronic. A real cool-kid mix bag - but then I may be a tad biased.

Food: Preference for Asian - all kinds, Middle Eastern, Turkish, Indian good flavours and a bit of a kick, fish - particularly shellfish, poached egg afficiando, like to have a bit of a picnic of things.

Infinitely more savoury than sweet.

I don't own a TV and barely watch it. Although my all time favourite show is Twin Peaks, I'm not sure it'll ever be beaten.

Love film. Love the film festivals, like indie/art house/not always general release stuff, tend to stay away from Ben Stiller/Adam Sandler type offerings.
The six things I could never do without
Friends
My own space
Intimacy
My bike
Audio
Snowy & Titus
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Remove the 'about' from the opening sentence.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something that is going to wind down my week nicely and make me happy...which could be any number of things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really massively fascinated by paper engineering. I have quite the collection of pop-up books. Apparently I should keep this sort of admission under wraps.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You'd like to / are going to compose it whilst refraining from text speak / are a formidable joy to be around / want an adventure / are more interested in finding things out for yourself rather than making (or going along with) judgements to make yourself feel safer / like the cut of my jib and whatnot...