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25 Port Townsend, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 14
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Thai (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Wow so things have changed pretty dramatically once again for me. I'm going to live in India with my good friend for the next six months or so. I'm in a period of intense transition right now so I'm not really sure about much except the fundamentals of who I am haven't really changed. You could say the storm has just been strong enough to blow off any parts of me the aren't essential.

This is supposed to be about me so I guess I should get down to it. I'm twenty five and live in Port Townsend. I don't plan on staying here for a whole lot longer though. I've got the travel itch and it needs to be scratched . I live my life in a simple way. I do what I want when I want to do it. I go around projecting as much positive energy as I can to everyone around me.I really try to be a conscious individual and try to be a catalyst for positive change in my community and around the world. I'm very intelligent and I admire that quality in other people. I want to heal the world in whatever way I can.
What I’m doing with my life
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Leaving for India hopefully by February, in the meantime, existing and having fun while I'm still here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good and analyzing situations. Determining people's intentions, motives, so forth. There's so much more going on than meets the eye. I love music. I played the cello for 12 years and got pretty good at it too. I play piano also and guitar. I can pretty much pick up any instrument (as long as you don't have to blow into it) and play it decently.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a little quiet at first. I like to watch and listen to people before I jump in. Sometimes not though and I'll just jump in. I have kind of an intense gaze, gets people a little unnerved sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Just about anything will do. Except textbooks. They're boring. I own a lot of books and love to read. Some of my favorites are The Art of War and The Book of Five Rings. I like some fantasy too, as well as history books.

Movies: To be honest, most movies suck these days. Too much focus on special effects while neglecting the storyline and character development. It's sad really. But I generally like adventure and thriller movies best. I like when I can't figure out what the ending is going to be. Seriously, I just watched 5 episodes of Bones the other night and totally guessed the exact outcome of 4 of the 5 episodes. I like to be surprised.

TV: I used to watch the news a lot. Not anymore. It's crap. All lies. I like the Walking Dead and Game of Thrones. Spartacus on STARZ was a great show but it's over now. Breaking Bad is good too.

Music: I like rap. No, not that fake thug R&B crap that they play all day on the radio, but real intellectual rap. I like Wu Tang Clan, Immortal Technique, NAS, Tech N9ne, Dead Prez, and others. I mean I really like all kinds of music, except for country and mainstream anything really.

Food: I like to cook, cooking is fun. I can make a lot of different things, but my specialty is vegetarian chili. Am I a vegetarian? Hell no, but for some reason I started making it that way and well, you don't mess with success. I love Thai food, it's my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I need love in whatever form it might take. I've been working on self love recently because I've come to the realization that you need to be ok with being alone and loving yourself before you can truly love another without possessing them. But other than that I just need music and laughter. And the essentials to make the physical body continue to operate of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking about the future of humanity. Thinking in general. Thinking about the origins of the universe and spirituality. Thinking about my place in this world. I spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly days of the week don't hold a lot of relevance for me these days. I'm usually pretty outgoing but I've been hermity lately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can feel people's emotions
You should message me if
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you want something different? I'm not normal in any sense of the word. But at the same time I am pretty normal. I don't have any outstanding issues and I like to just chill and have a good time. Low pressure low stress. Whatever happens happens.