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26 Port Townsend, WA Man


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  • Ages 18-38
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My details

Last online
Oct 2
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Thai (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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This will be about the 10th time I've rewritten this. I am a free spirited, fun loving, travel oriented, compassion driven, nonconforming eternal optimist. I've been going full throttle on an intense spiritual journey to discover all life has to offer. I desperately want to heal the pain and suffering that I constantly observe around me and want nothing more than to see the world achieve inner and outer peace. I just returned from an epic adventure to India and it completely blew my mind wide open. Recently I've adopted the snake as a power animal because I feel like I am constantly in a state of transition and growth, molting out of my old skin and emerging anew. I'm an extremely loyal and compassionate person and am primary motivated by love in all it's various forms. I love nature and all of its creations and I love people and all their various strengths and flaws. Life is short and I believe in doing what makes you happy. I have issues with authority and don't want to be controlled.

I don't have a lot of tolerance for bullshit. I know when people are lying to me for the most part. I am a very genuine person. I might be complex, but I'm always open about how I feel and I always tell the truth, no matter how uncomfortable it might be.

Recently I've started doing Prana which is a form of energy healing. It blew my mind wide open with how effective it is. If anyone needs any work done on them its non invasive (you don't even touch the person) and of course always free.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well right now I'm in Southern Oregon (land that I love) getting ready to start work on a farm. Hanging out at the Jackson Wellsprings until that happens.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathizing with people. I also play the piano, cello, and bass. I spin poi and love to read. I write and sometimes sing if I don't think anyone is watching. I'm also good at helping people with their problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes. Sometimes my height. I appear very average until you start getting to know me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Just about anything will do. Except textbooks. They're boring. I own a lot of books and love to read. Some of my favorites are The Art of War and The Book of Five Rings. I like A Song of Ice and Fire, as well as a lot of classic literature.

Movies: To be honest I'm not really sure what kind of movies I like anymore. I like movies that are well made, regardless of what genre it is.

TV: I don't really watch TV

Music: I like all kinds of music as long as it isn't made with the express goal of brainwashing people or making money at the expense of quality music. I especially like rap that has a message. Immortal Technique is my favorite artist.

Food: I like to cook, cooking is fun. I can make a lot of different things, but my specialty is vegetarian chili. Am I a vegetarian? Eh, I try. For some reason I started making it that way and well, you don't mess with success. I love Thai and Indian food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I need love in whatever form it might take. I've been working on self love recently because I've come to the realization that you need to be ok with being alone and loving yourself before you can truly love another without possessing them. But other than that I just need music and laughter. And the essentials to make the physical body continue to operate of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking about the future of humanity. Thinking in general. Thinking about the origins of the universe and spirituality. Thinking about my place in this world. I spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no idea anymore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I feel like the me that I want to be is often at war with bad traits and habits of who I used to be. As a result sometimes there is inner turmoil.
You should message me if
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you think I'm interesting. If you've wanted to visit India and you're curious what its like. If you're bored. If you want a new friend, friends with benefits, or short or long term lover. If you're bored or want someone to philosophize with. If you want to throw rocks at random stuff or want to go hiking.