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songoftheclipse

27 / M / straight / Single

Oaklyn, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am unique, creative, and eccentric.

My Self-Summary

I'm a wanderer and a dreamer.

I excercise, work, cook/eat, read/write, listen to music, go to concerts, make-believe, go on adventures, survive, and play in my band/practice guitar.

I have a dark and sarcastic sense of humor. I'm outwardly calm but very passionate. I'm introspective and I like to over think/analyze what is on my mind. I really enjoy eating. I love berries of all sorts ... especially raspberries, strawberries, and blueberries.

I'm 5'10" with a medium build weighing around 165 lbs.

I grew up in the middle of nowhere in West Virginia. I'm not a real deal hick though b/c both of my parents are from Baltimore. I say some words with an accent and it is more pronounced when I'm tired. I lived in the woods until I was 18 and then I ran off to Pittsburgh, PA to try and start a band. That was a humbling experience so I enrolled at WVU. I have a BA in English with a minor in Communications. After I graduated I moved to Newark, DE to play music with a childhood friend who had moved to the region. I recently moved to Oaklyn, NJ to be closer to the band I started with some people I've met on my journey.

Right now i'm focused on my music. I'd also like to meet a wonderful woman to share my time and eventually my life with. I'd like to meet my muse.

What I’m doing with my life

I work and play in a metal band. My basic routine revolves around working and playing music. I still don't know that many people in the area and I'm trying to change that. If i'm not at work I'm practicing guitar, cooking, eating, or performing basic life functions like showering or cleaning.

If you want to check out my band you can search Echoes of Dead Gods on myspace (lead/rhythm guitar, backing vocals). I also mixed, EQed, and mastered the songs on the page.

I’m really good at

being me, guitar, listening, cooking, and something that holds my interest

The first things people usually notice about me

is me ... j/k ... eyes or beard
My eyes are blue to the point that people ask me if I wear colored contacts. I wear contacts but they aren't the eye color changing kind. My beard seems to receive some attention too. People don't have beards with the frequency that they do where I grew up. My beard has a bunch of different colors: all shades of brown, red, blond, and even a few white ones hidden in there.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

George R. R. Martin, Kurt Vonnegut, and Chuck Palahniuck are a few of my favorite authors.
I've recently started reading more books on music, recording, mixing, mastering, and all the what not in between.
Cook books are always a good read for me too.

I like a little bit of everything when it comes to movies. Sometimes something terrible sometimes something good.

I play metal and listen mainly to death, thrash, power, melodic death, and folk/viking/pagan metal. I also listen to outlaw country, bluegrass, punk, classical, jazz, rock just depends on my mood/situation.
some of my favorite bands from those genres in no particular order besides when they come to mind
death - Kataklysm, Vader, Bloodbath, Deicide, Unleashed
thrash - Kreator, Slayer, Demolition Hammer, Dew-Scented
power - Demons and Wizards, Iced Earth, Symphony X
melodic death - Inflames (older), Kalmah
folk/viking/pagan - Ensiferum, Wintersun, Menhir, Mithotyn
outlaw country - Hank 3, Johny Cash
bluegrass - Doc Watson, Tony Rice
punk - Dead Kennedys, the Exploited
My last.fm profile can be found @
www.last.fm/user/songoftheclipse/

I'm a pretty good cook and I'll try to make just about anything (want to help?!?) but if I'm going out I like ethnic foods the most. Probably because I don't make those well. Thai, Indian, Chinese, Mexican. I mainly consume fresh fruits and vegetables, chicken, rice, and cereal when I'm at home. I have a huge sweet tooth (until it rots out!) for chocolate, cake, and caramel but I limit my intake of it.

The six things I could never do without

my guitar

music

food (preferably tasty and exciting)

companionship

listing stuff on the internet

clean socks

I spend a lot of time thinking about

music

Mine and others ... how it sounds, how it feels, how it's played. Did I really just write another buy my CD riff? ... oh geez ...

On a typical Friday night I am

i typically have band practice on friday unless i have a previous engagement. sometimes people are surprised I willingly give up every friday night but when you truly love something its hard to imagine what else you would be doing.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like to drink coffee in the shower. Its really fun and I suggest you try it. I'll make you a cup.

I'm extremely honest and open. I'll answer any question you may ask.

You should message me if

If you're a unique, caring woman who wants to get to know me. While its not a requirement, if you can at least tolerate metal music that would be awesome because it takes up a sizable portion of my life.

or if you have amazing recipes that you would like to share with me ...
Can you make Thai red curry? If the answer is yes then please message me!