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38 Bellevue, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:44pm
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hmmm, I'm horrible at these things.

My instinct is to either spill the beans, laying every good and bad thing on the table, just to clear the air or provide all the dry facts about my life: house, job, car, friends, body parts, etc. Both seem incredibly nonsensical, they certainly don't interest me in you.

Suffice it to say, I'm just a dude who enjoys a lot of things and is looking for another dude with an open mind, kind spirit, and calm collected demeanor, with whom to experience the finer and simpler things in life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Originally from Idaho, I moved to Seattle in 2009 for grad school. I'm a musician, singer, and conductor. I work as an event/venue promoter.

I love music and the performing arts (especially jazz and classical).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Directing Choirs
Helping people be better
Dinner parties
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and lips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Would like to travel more. Been spending a lot of time in San Francisco lately visiting friends.

I workout 5 days a week and watch what I eat. I've lost 40+ lbs since Nov. 2014. I love all kinds of food but my health comes first. Looking for a guy who shares similar values.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
My home
My toothbrush
My own bed
My dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Spirituality. I feel a strong connection to the esoteric and the existential questions in life; funny thing for an atheist, too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to stay home but not succeeding. Would like to find someone to stay home with me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I grew up too quickly.
You should message me if
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you find me interesting and would like to get to know each other.