New Year, New OKCupid self-summary!
I am a teacher who is also in the Sac State Master of English Language and Literature program who hopes to one day pursue a PhD in African American Literature or Cultural Studies. I read a lot and am always busy.
I am a crazy person. I admit it. I don't believe in hiding my crazy and being deceiving. I am intense. I have been known to others as funny. I love to read and be silly. I am not sure what I am looking for. I just know that I want something real, none of this false pretense stuff. If you're not that into me, BYE. I don't believe in wasting people's time, so I appreciate those who won't waste mine. I am an open and honest person, and if I don't feel a connection or lose interest, I will just tell you. It's the best way to go about things, allowing each person to not wonder what might have been or what went wrong. Sometimes, two people are just not right for each other -- it's super hard to find someone that is right for you, actually. Haha, or that is worth tolerating. Guys that play or attempt to play mind games are NOT attractive to me. I have been played before, and it just reflects so poorly on the guy.
Additionally, if you are on a dating website and are just looking for sex, go to a bar --it's easier! Also, if you are on a dating site and say you are looking to date or are looking for a relationship, it would be nice to actually meet up within a normal time frame. Depending on the "normal" factor, for me, it would be anywhere from talking for two weeks to a month. I don't see the point in waiting around longer than that to meet. I've tried it, and it was pointless.
I love to laugh, and I am a sucker for a guy who can make me laugh but doesn't have to try too hard to do so. I am looking for something real. I don't do one night stands. I am worth it and have a lot to bring to the table, so if you're coming to dinner, I hope you have something to contribute as well.
I know that people don't often read an entire OKcupid profile, but I always read every word. If you message me looking for a fling or sex, I will know that you didn't read mine and have only been looking at my pictures. hahaha.