Too long, but anyway...........
I may not be so easy to get to know but once you know me I’m an
Still have a little hippy under my punk under my (almost)grown up
self ( metaphorically only..........no patchouli, love beads or sex
I am almost always fairly cheerful, supportive and
I'm fun and adventurous
I’m a perfectionist who’s way far from perfect
I love presents, giving more than getting
I live way left of center
I love a challenge
I can be serious or extremely silly
I spend most of my time happy
I believe in firmly putting my worst foot forward and not
pretending to be something I'm not
I have learned the joy that comes from bending for those you
I can work really hard, and do, or be exceptionally lazy
I don’t believe in ever telling anyone what to do but will always
share an opinion about things
I am artistic yet practical
I greatly appreciate quirkiness and kooky outfits
I really value honesty and openness
I am definitely not conservative
I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but those that love me, love me
fiercely, as I do them
I’m surely out for some fun
I'm not nearly as narcissistic as all these "I's" would lead one to
Finally and most important.......I’m definitely a romantic and
looking for the same. Someone artistic, spontaneous and maybe a
little mysterious to share in some adventures and see what comes of
What I’m doing with my life
Running my ( very small) Empire. I am a chef and own my own
catering business. It's hugely challenging but so worth the work. I
try to express my artist through my food. Spent many years
traveling the planet as a private chef to the famous and powerful
and one or two gods of the silver screen, Loved it but decided I
really just wanted to do my own thing. Definitely looking to have
I’m really good at
Baking scones, handholding, puzzles of all kinds, listening,
dubious advice after listening, smiling, finding missing objects,
The first things people usually notice about me
So unoriginal, I know, but smile.........give me ten more minutes
and I hope my silliness and humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Ever changing pile by my bed, first few that come to mind -
East of Eden, Narcissus and Goldmund, Edward Gorey's Alphabet, The
Poisonwood Bible, Three Junes, The End of the Affair ( this list
would be different if answered an hour from now) and always include
a few trashy horror novels for fun.
Shows- I have liked Fringe, Dexter, True detective, Breaking bad,
Game of thrones. Walking Dead is a guilty pleasure I watch with my
13 yr old
Movies- Love them! The Tenth victim, District 9, anything
Hitchcock, Brazil, Midnight, To Kill a Mockingbird, The English
Patient, Beyond the Valley of the Dolls......just a few off the top
of my head. Popcorn and handholding.........I'm in!
Food- Anything I don't have to cook for myself. Ha.
Music- all over the map
The six things I could never do without
Kissing, dark humor, the pile of books by my bed, love, loyalty, my
son and my friends.Probably not in that order. Yeah that's 7 but
I'm not very good with rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the proper etiquette is for a young lady here on OKC? Should I
be forward and send messages or just peek a few times to show my
interest? Is it more of a compliment to make someone a favorite or
give them 5 stars. Oh the drama and politics. Probably won't be
doing either. It's almost too much for me. Tell you what... if I've
peeked a couple of times, I probably think your cute and
interesting. I think maybe now I've spent way too much time
thinking about this. WTF. Oh, and just what question did I answer
wrong so that OKC says I am "worse mannered"? I take pride in my
please and thank you's!
On a typical Friday night I am
Always preferred Thursday night. Live in the Meat Market since the
early '80's and weekends are crazy these days, so just trying to
block it all out on Fridays. Much preferred the drag queen
prostitutes and butchers of old to the crowds now. Otherwise,
dinner with friends, hanging at my place in Woodstock, walking in
the woods with flashlights, dancing out in clubland (don't do it
much these days but pretty much grew up working and hanging out in
the downtown NY club/music scene and still like to pop in once and
a while), home with a book or movie. Just enjoying it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very apt to leap without fully considering the outcome of my
actions and my enthusiasm can sometimes get the best of me.
You should message me if
Your looking for a friend who could be more.
You want to have some fun.
You actually want to meet in person.
You would like to make me laugh, make me think and you're decisive
and I never again have to answer the question, "What should we have
for dinner?" Fucking bane of my existence. Ha.
You don't take any of this too seriously.
Also, I don't answer if no picture. Sorry, unless you're willing to