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soopahtraci

35 F Bronx, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:48am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
For the sake of plain explanations and keyword searches, I am polyamorous, and I'm into things like honesty and communication in relationships. I'm in an open relationship with my awesome boyfriend I met right here on this site 8 years ago. We date people as individuals, not as a couple.

I'm pretty quiet in group settings. I guess I like to listen and absorb. I like hanging out in small groups best, as opposed to large loud parties. Conversational intimacy.

I was a pretty serious 20-something. Having a lot more fun with life in my 30s.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to separate who I am from who I thought I was.
I’m really good at
Being creative, within a given context or constraint. One of my HS teachers called me a divergent thinker. I was glad to find out I wasn't just weird.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, if I have it down. (At least I hope that's the answer. Long hair is a pain in the ass to take care of!)
I suppose people also notice my height. I'm kind of tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I gotta say... I got a Kindle last year for Christmas and I love it. I read so much more now. Been digging some Neil Gaiman. Fell in love with Alison Bechdel. Most recently slain by The Goldfinch and The Fault in Our Stars.

Movies: Just some favorites... Good Will Hunting. Moonrise Kingdom! Beginners is awesome. A Home at the End of the World. The Blues Brothers!

Music: Rock! \m/ Seriously, I have over 36 GB of music. Listing artists would be silly. But if you like Led Zeppelin and DMB, we should talk. If you don't, no worries. I'll listen to anything and everything.

Board & Card Games: Puerto Rico, Dixit, Dominion, 7 Wonders, Fluxx, Aquarius, Pueblo, Carcassonne, Settlers. Cards Against Humanity is good too, but it's starting to get worn out for me.

Food: Oh yeah gotta eat something and make the hunger stop. Whatever's around is fine.

Favorite lyric selections that seems apropos to a dating site:
"In all the places we were hiding love. What was it we were thinking of?" - Peter Gabriel
"All I really want our love to do is to bring out the best in me and in you too." - Joni Mitchell
"All we have to seeeeee is that I don't belong to you, and you don't belong to me YEAH YEAAAAAAH!" - George Michael
The six things I could never do without
I'd have to say making things. I like to be doing something, creating something, or making a difference somehow. Collaborating with other people and evolving into smarter people together is just what life is all about, to me.

I need five more?
Real friends. I don't need a lot of 'em, just a few good ones.
Sleep. I loves me some sleep. Particularly in the AM hours. You know, 3am to 10am? :)
Hot tea.
Music. I listen to music pretty much constantly.
Love. Duh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...overcoming and outgrowing jealousy and figuring out how to love without fear.

How to be less introverted while still being me.

This photography art project I have in mind that I need to make time for.

Also, I think a lot about professions I would have, if I could. Don't get me wrong, I love my job. But I also want to be a documentary producer, and a HS English teacher, and a summer camp director, and...
On a typical Friday night I am
...sitting on the couch, watching a documentary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not really into casual sex. I need to feel some sort of connection/affection first to really be into it. But don't be scared. Love is good. Really, I just want us to get to know each other a bit first.
I’m looking for
  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
...you saw Take This Waltz. I thought it was fantastic, and open to interpretation, and would love to discuss it with someone.
...you want to hang out. Doesn't have to be a date.
...um, you like any/most of what you read above? I find this section awkward.