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49 F Brooklyn, NY

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Yesterday – 10:25pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Masters program
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Relationship Type
Has a kid

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My self-summary
Long-term resident of Brooklyn. I often lament the changing character of this city: luxury condos, suburban chains, cutsie stores, artisinal everything and think, wow what is happening here? But I couldn't live anywhere else. Literally. NY has spoiled me for other places (or corrupted me).

I love live music, smart funny people, water and sunshine, good books and films, satire and gallows humor. I'm curious and fairly well-read, feminine and occasionally prickly. I have a good sense of humor and I'm fun to hang out with. I'm kind and generous and loyal to those close to me. I'm not particularly materialistic nor into status and am perplexed and a little bit bored by those who are (I.e. shopping as a hobby). I'm into running and working out (like who isn't these days) but not with religious zeal. I'm liberal, progressive and a closet romantic.
What I’m doing with my life
Still figuring that out. Is that wrong?
I’m really good at
Memorizing things. Seeing the big picture. Carrying a tune.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd like to think my style. Probably not though. More likely my hair or my attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
authors I love: Alice Munro, Lorrie Moore, Junot Diaz, Sherman Alexie, Raymond Carver, Dostoyevsky, Nabokov, Paul Bowles to name just a few.

Music: I become obsessed with certain bands, singers & genres and tend to play them over & over again. Some of my all- time favorites are Wire, Joy Division, Minor Threat, X, Velvet Underground. Recently I started listening to The Men. I love Brazilian music- samba de raiz- Nelson Cavaquinho, Cartola, Adoniran Barbosa. I sing in Portuguese so I spend a lot of time listening to work on timing & pronunciation.

Movies: Henry Fool, The Shining, Rosemary's Baby, Dog Day Afternoon, The English Patient, Jules and Jim, American Splendor, The Secret Garden, Blue, White & Red, Paradise Now, Walkabout, There is no logic to this list. Not exhaustive by any means.

I know this is supposed to matter. I have taste. It may not be yours. Really who cares but I suppose we need to talk about something.
The six things I could never do without
Good conversations
Hair conditioner
Strong coffee
A nice pair of boots
Sunny days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why so many assholes are in my neighborhood all the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm having dinner/drinks with friends, occasionally playing music out places, sleeping
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Despite my share of "failed" relationships, I'm not jaded. Seriously.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You single.You're cool, intelligent, and kind-hearted. You don't have a tedious laundry list of requirements in a date or in life. You live in the city. You would rather meet than endlessly chat- especially here.