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sophiafirst

56 F Hamilton, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 50–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English, Portuguese

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My playfulness is undeniable and yet my convictions are serious. I am comfortable in my own skin and am able to be my authentic self. I can readily laugh at myself and endeavor to never take myself too seriously. I have come to know that my laughter is quite contagious.
I lean to the left and am a little addicted to CBC. Lately I have become embarrassed to be Canadian with what Harper is doing to our reputation internationally.

For those who know MyersBriggs I am an ENFP. I am spontaneous and can wing my way through most scenarios.

I lived in Brazil for quite some time so am fluent in Portuguese and have an acquired love of Latin music and very strong coffee. I have travelled extensively both personally and professionally yet there are places that seem elusive to me; I would very much like to visit the smaller Greek islands and also visit relatives in Iceland.
I appreciate my own company though am seldom alone. Even when alone, I do not experience loneliness; life is too busy and I can't seem to find the time to spend with my friends.
I am a mother of one university-attending daughter who means the world to me. I recently took her and her boyfriend to New York city to catch a show just for fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My work is fulfilling and I choose to do similar things in my spare time and with similar folks. My personal and professional life intersects a lot! I do all I can to be intentional about how I spend my time in hopes always that it, in some small way, contributes to affecting change for the common good.
And though that may sound awfully righteous, I am cheeky and subversive and laugh through most of it all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over time, it has become evident to me that I have the ability to make people feel comfortable enough to approach their most authentic selves. I hold the confidences of many and because of my value of accompaniment, am able to share closely in the lives of my friends. Apparently I am a captivating public speaker and have been quoted back to myself.
I am a good storyteller- both stories from ancient/contemporary sources and yet tell my own life stories with enthusiasm ...
and I can pitch a tent to withstand storms!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my laughter is contagious and I am attentive to the people around me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My work requires plenty of reading and so usually I choose award-winning literature for pleasure, Man Booker, CBC Canada Reads, some best sellers etc. Non-fiction interests usually are politically charged.
The films I enjoy most are politically charged or make me laugh; clever wit entertains me best.
Music- I enjoy soft folk tunes, though my taste can suddenly go way off into left field. I've been attending house concerts recently and thoroughly enjoyed the intimacy of that venue and any type of music presented.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Though not technically "a thing" I'm not sure how I'd cope without my daughter.
my close friends and collagues
my computer/cell
my bookshelf
my sense of humour
CBC
(I'm not really attached to the "things" in my life. I've moved house from one country to another thrice and on two occasions, I opened my door and gave away most of my belongings to my friends, leaving with a couple of suitcases with clothing and photos.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If "thinking" means wondering I wonder about how my daughter is and if she is well.
If "thinking" means reflecting upon then I guess I'd say politics - both small p and capital P politics
small p in terms of what it means to live in community/ social interaction
capital P in terms of what our governments are doing and how we can affect change.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Truly there isn't a typical night though, if referring to an evening free for pleasure, I would choose either time with friends over dinner and drinks, an evening with a book, or some time to putter around the house. Though if anyone made a suggestion, I'd likely be game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think I would be hard-pressed to find a question about myself that I'd be reluctant to answer however, I think it would be best to let those questions emerge.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
At the risk of creating just another list to check off, I'd hope that your acquired self awareness derives through a life well lived - that you know of your vulnerabilities and strengths; that you may have a gentle soul and a warm smile that is captivating; a sound sensuality and laughter on your heart.