sophialicious
35 / f / bisexual / seeing someone
Tucson, Arizona, United States
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connoisseur, of, and shenaniganery
My self-summary Propose an edit
I love being me.
Um, I kick ass. I am a pain in the arse. I like very masculine men.
I effing love sex, but only with someone I feel love for....
Except.... Let's take a sex treatise detour, shall we?
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But before we do that, lemme say I now have this utterly fantastic
brainy, funny, HOT, fun, MANLY, sweet, mean, good, bad, cute,
charming, obnoxious, wise, tasty, upstanding, bad-arse,
alarmingly-perfect-through-all-his-"flaws" boyfriend. I guess I'll
have to erase all this other stuff and rewrite it, but SWEET FSM,
NOT NOW.
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I think sex is a sacred, beautiful act when done between people who
love one another. Really, I do. That being said, I have a
ridiculously high sex drive bordering on obsession... as in -- and
I am not joking here -- if you don't have a libido that drives you
to have sex at LEAST once a day please don't consider me unless you
just wanna be friends. Whatever. So, yeah, it's really important, I
like it all the time, anywhere, everywhere, and I'll be sorta
disappointed if you don't wanna snooze together at least briefly
afterwards (I mean, unless it's on a train in Italy, or something, where it's totally
inappropriate/unfeasible to sleep), but that can be gotten around.
(This is rather silly, isn't it?) If I'm sleep deprived, as my
career choice sorta makes me regularly, I prefer speedy but
thorough... blah, blah, blah, the bottom line is once I'm in love,
the flood gates are open, and you sure as hell better be a very
manly man!
Oh, and I am a jerk with double standards. You have to be a very
manly man with no homosexual tendencies, but you have to be OK with
my having screwed around with girls, and maybe even... well, we'll
cross that bridge (or not) when we get there.
End of detour.
So, I really am a good, caring, deep, kind person. I am fun (well, adventurous to the point of
danger, and sometimes beyond), good-natured, I do good things (my
career choice is saving lives, literally), I treat
people how I'd like to be treated (well, I TRY), and I REALLY enjoy
life.
I also am sort of a lot to handle, I guess. I need someone with a
VERY strong sense of self, or I'll accidentally run the entire
show. Whoever I end up with has to be very strong emotionally and physically, be
adventurous
and willing to travel a LOT (or at least be OK with my
running off for months at a time for stuff like Doctors Without
Borders or just expeditions), have a good sense of
humor and let stuff roll off his back. I must really respect my
mate, and I think part of what Mr. Fabulous needs for me to respect
him is a drive to do something to make the world a better
place.
And I'm lazy. I'll work on this later.
Like now! So, I'm gonna graduate from med school in like a year,
and then I'll be starting residency, which means i) I'll be SUPER,
should-be-ILLEGAL busy and sleep deprived, and ii) I have NO CLUE
where I'll be after May 2009. My #1 choice is the SF Bay area (I'll return
there some day, dadgummit!), or Edinburgh (still looking at how
feasible that is for an American grad), followed by Hawaii and the NW coast.
HOWEVER! If you are totally fabulous and we hit it off like mad,
and all that delightful fun stuff, I'm up for going anywhere for
residency. :) I've lived all over the planet and know I can thrive
anywhere, and I don't *really* care where I go for residency... not
like I'll ever be able to be outside, anyway! Tee hee hee.
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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
Trauma
surgery!!! Er, getting there.
Planning on having kids some time in the next few years,
however it happens... yes, you should run away screaming.
Painting...
there's oil
paint all over my couch and carpet and favorite pants...
oops.
Enjoying living with my UTTERLY AMAZING, FANTABULOUS, BRILLIANT,
GORGEOUS, HILARIOUS, OBNOXIOUS, GENEROUS sister. :) Lucky me!
Making metal stuff on the floor in my dining room-turned-studio and kitchen (as with
the paint, there's flux and solder bits all over and inside the
stove... oops again).
Trying (and so far failing miserably at it) to teach myself how to
juggle. My sister
and I went into a toy store today and came out with 3 sparkly
super-balls and brand new juggling technique/theory! Ooooooooh,
sparkly!
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I'm really good at Propose an edit
living.
being a dork.
differential equations
and transport phenomena.
exploring and adventuring!
non-sequiturs.
dancing?
throwing
(clay on a potter's wheel, rocks into
water, nearby stuff at people... wish I were better at throwing
insults)
procrastination.
being the recipient of head massages.
finding things hilarious when almost nobody else does, frequently
very inappropriately.
wandering, both mentally and physically (I actually do have
ADHD -- woo
hoo!).
experimenting... when abroad I have only one hard and fast rule:
try EVERYTHING at least once. Really, that sorta applies here,
too... I can't believe I still have all my original limbs.
pretending I'm a magpie.
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The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
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Mermaid hair? My ridiculous choices in clothes, shoes and jewelry?
(I wear this coat that the dean of my college calls my Friend, as
in "Where's Your Friend today?") My boobs, which I personally think
is hilarious (though they're smaller now, alas). If I'm with my
sister, I think it's the excessive, incoherent laughter-laden
shrieking....
I DON'T KNOW. Mish arfa. Non lo so. Io no so.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
print: Dandelion Wine, World's End, Gone with the Wind,
Dune (ONLY #1),
Tolkein's books,
Robert
Jordan caca, yes: HARRY POTTER (but I'm seriously
pissed at JK Rowling), Tom Sawyer, Huck Finn, Neruda, The Alchemist, ElfQuest, Snow Crash, Calvin & Hobbes...
right now I'm reading The Raw Shark Texts and
The Man Who
Mistook His Wife for a Hat (message/edit me if you know the
capitalization rules... I'm too lazy to look them up just now),
among other things, and enjoying them both.
screen: Firefly
(no, NOT Serenity), Bladerunner, Goonies, Terminator 2 & 1, Big
Trouble in Little China, Alien and Aliens, The Fifth Element, the
Lord of the
Rings trilogy, Donnie Darko, Stardust, Battlestar Galactica,
Memento, Powerpuff Girls,
The Usual
Suspects, Nevermore, Wristcutters, True Romance, I <3
Huckabees,
The
Princess Bride.
ears/throat/mouth/lungs/diaphragm: Tori Amos, Beethoven, Sarah Mclachlan, Gogol Bordello,
Mozart, Bach, Puccini, Niyaz, people covering Leonard Cohen, Indigo Girls,
The Clash,
Vivaldi (bits,
anyway), just discovered Jonathan Coultran, FLobots,
tongue and tummy: tasty food (popcorn, Middle Eastern, sushi [Sushimatsu in Tucson],
Thai, Indian, grapefruit, ice cream)
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The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
my sister -- well, my whole family... and I'm gonna lump friends in there, too...
let's just make it People I Love (and yeah, good pets are people) (and no, not vice
versa)
skipping the country (I've lived all over the planet, have explored
even more, and plan on living in the US only part time, if at all,
once I grow up) (like that's ever gonna happen)
water
the internet
hot bath
color
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That was a few weeks ago.
Right now it's
people I love movement song color water stretching
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And just now it's
love (both friends and family), sky, sleep, legs (gracias a DIOS I
have both mine!), voice/music, laughter
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I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
stuff
boys (OK, so just now maybe one boy in particular...)
girls
stuff I won't say in public... all those women who said >7s were
lying.
how lucky (and thankful) I am (I'm a heinous
cheezball; SO??!?)
"My reach is global, my tower secure; my cause is noble, my power
is pure."
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
Well, if not at the hospital, the answer WOULD'VE been "stupid 80s
dancing at Asylum," but they CLOSED, and there's nowhere that good
to go dancing in Tucson, so for the last few weekends I think the
answer's been "whining."
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
After horror movies I'm actually afraid of the dark. Totally
ridiculous, but there it is. Overactive imagination.
You should message me if Propose an edit
If you can teach me to snowboard or breathe fire or blow glass. Or get the
Ranger 33 out of
the slip without the pinche engine!!!
Or if you're babetastic and brainy, and you wanna go dancing or
play Pictionary.
PLEASE, GODS, contact me if you have a solution to Asylum's death
that beats Congress on Mondays. (I love it, but it doesn't come
near Asylum.)
And please don't contact me if you're a guy looking to persuade me
to cheat on Mr. Made-of-Awesome; I'm SOOOO not interested, and I
really have no respect for men who are all about getting women to
cheat. Ew.
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My personality awards
Questions She Cares About View all
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- Oral sex is...
- · part of my regular routine
- · something for special occasions
- · a chore
- · something I won't do
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- How frequently do you go out of your way to make others feel appreciated?
- · Way more than average
- · About average
- · Less than average / Never
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- Would you attend an event that you otherwise had no interest in (for example, a work party or an athletic event) in order to support your partner?
- · Yes, and gladly.
- · Yes, occasionally.
- · Rarely
- · Nope
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- How important is it for you to make physical contact when showing affection for someone?
- · Very important.
- · Somewhat important.
- · Not important.
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- When faced with an important decision that may affect others, which of the following considerations would you rank highest?
- · Justice.
- · Compassion.
- · Practicality.
- · Self-interest.
Tests She's Taken View all
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
|---|---|---|
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
| Are You Sexy, Gorgeous, or Glamorous? | Sex Pot | Take it! |
| The Awesome Test of Awesomeness. | Awesomely Scary | Take it! |
| The Right Brain vs Left Brain Test | Center Brained! | Take it! |
| The Supernatural Identity Test | Elf | Take it! |
| The What kind of sex freak are you Test | Amature porn | Take it! |







