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connoisseur, of, and shenaniganery

My self-summary Propose an edit

I love being me.

Um, I kick ass. I am a pain in the arse. I like very masculine men. I effing love sex, but only with someone I feel love for.... Except.... Let's take a sex treatise detour, shall we?

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But before we do that, lemme say I now have this utterly fantastic brainy, funny, HOT, fun, MANLY, sweet, mean, good, bad, cute, charming, obnoxious, wise, tasty, upstanding, bad-arse, alarmingly-perfect-through-all-his-"flaws" boyfriend. I guess I'll have to erase all this other stuff and rewrite it, but SWEET FSM, NOT NOW.
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I think sex is a sacred, beautiful act when done between people who love one another. Really, I do. That being said, I have a ridiculously high sex drive bordering on obsession... as in -- and I am not joking here -- if you don't have a libido that drives you to have sex at LEAST once a day please don't consider me unless you just wanna be friends. Whatever. So, yeah, it's really important, I like it all the time, anywhere, everywhere, and I'll be sorta disappointed if you don't wanna snooze together at least briefly afterwards (I mean, unless it's on a train in Italy, or something, where it's totally inappropriate/unfeasible to sleep), but that can be gotten around. (This is rather silly, isn't it?) If I'm sleep deprived, as my career choice sorta makes me regularly, I prefer speedy but thorough... blah, blah, blah, the bottom line is once I'm in love, the flood gates are open, and you sure as hell better be a very manly man!

Oh, and I am a jerk with double standards. You have to be a very manly man with no homosexual tendencies, but you have to be OK with my having screwed around with girls, and maybe even... well, we'll cross that bridge (or not) when we get there.

End of detour.

So, I really am a good, caring, deep, kind person. I am fun (well, adventurous to the point of danger, and sometimes beyond), good-natured, I do good things (my career choice is saving lives, literally), I treat people how I'd like to be treated (well, I TRY), and I REALLY enjoy life.

I also am sort of a lot to handle, I guess. I need someone with a VERY strong sense of self, or I'll accidentally run the entire show. Whoever I end up with has to be very strong emotionally and physically, be adventurous and willing to travel a LOT (or at least be OK with my running off for months at a time for stuff like Doctors Without Borders or just expeditions), have a good sense of humor and let stuff roll off his back. I must really respect my mate, and I think part of what Mr. Fabulous needs for me to respect him is a drive to do something to make the world a better place.

And I'm lazy. I'll work on this later.

Like now! So, I'm gonna graduate from med school in like a year, and then I'll be starting residency, which means i) I'll be SUPER, should-be-ILLEGAL busy and sleep deprived, and ii) I have NO CLUE where I'll be after May 2009. My #1 choice is the SF Bay area (I'll return there some day, dadgummit!), or Edinburgh (still looking at how feasible that is for an American grad), followed by Hawaii and the NW coast. HOWEVER! If you are totally fabulous and we hit it off like mad, and all that delightful fun stuff, I'm up for going anywhere for residency. :) I've lived all over the planet and know I can thrive anywhere, and I don't *really* care where I go for residency... not like I'll ever be able to be outside, anyway! Tee hee hee.

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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Trauma surgery!!! Er, getting there.

Planning on having kids some time in the next few years, however it happens... yes, you should run away screaming.

Painting... there's oil paint all over my couch and carpet and favorite pants... oops.

Enjoying living with my UTTERLY AMAZING, FANTABULOUS, BRILLIANT, GORGEOUS, HILARIOUS, OBNOXIOUS, GENEROUS sister. :) Lucky me!

Making metal stuff on the floor in my dining room-turned-studio and kitchen (as with the paint, there's flux and solder bits all over and inside the stove... oops again).

Trying (and so far failing miserably at it) to teach myself how to juggle. My sister and I went into a toy store today and came out with 3 sparkly super-balls and brand new juggling technique/theory! Ooooooooh, sparkly!

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I'm really good at Propose an edit

living.

being a dork.

differential equations and transport phenomena.

exploring and adventuring!

non-sequiturs.

dancing?

throwing (clay on a potter's wheel, rocks into water, nearby stuff at people... wish I were better at throwing insults)

procrastination.

being the recipient of head massages.

finding things hilarious when almost nobody else does, frequently very inappropriately.

wandering, both mentally and physically (I actually do have ADHD -- woo hoo!).

experimenting... when abroad I have only one hard and fast rule: try EVERYTHING at least once. Really, that sorta applies here, too... I can't believe I still have all my original limbs.

pretending I'm a magpie.

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The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

???

Mermaid hair? My ridiculous choices in clothes, shoes and jewelry? (I wear this coat that the dean of my college calls my Friend, as in "Where's Your Friend today?") My boobs, which I personally think is hilarious (though they're smaller now, alas). If I'm with my sister, I think it's the excessive, incoherent laughter-laden shrieking....

I DON'T KNOW. Mish arfa. Non lo so. Io no so.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

print: Dandelion Wine, World's End, Gone with the Wind, Dune (ONLY #1), Tolkein's books, Robert Jordan caca, yes: HARRY POTTER (but I'm seriously pissed at JK Rowling), Tom Sawyer, Huck Finn, Neruda, The Alchemist, ElfQuest, Snow Crash, Calvin & Hobbes... right now I'm reading The Raw Shark Texts and The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat (message/edit me if you know the capitalization rules... I'm too lazy to look them up just now), among other things, and enjoying them both.

screen: Firefly (no, NOT Serenity), Bladerunner, Goonies, Terminator 2 & 1, Big Trouble in Little China, Alien and Aliens, The Fifth Element, the Lord of the Rings trilogy, Donnie Darko, Stardust, Battlestar Galactica, Memento, Powerpuff Girls, The Usual Suspects, Nevermore, Wristcutters, True Romance, I <3 Huckabees, The Princess Bride.

ears/throat/mouth/lungs/diaphragm: Tori Amos, Beethoven, Sarah Mclachlan, Gogol Bordello, Mozart, Bach, Puccini, Niyaz, people covering Leonard Cohen, Indigo Girls, The Clash, Vivaldi (bits, anyway), just discovered Jonathan Coultran, FLobots,

tongue and tummy: tasty food (popcorn, Middle Eastern, sushi [Sushimatsu in Tucson], Thai, Indian, grapefruit, ice cream)

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The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

my sister -- well, my whole family... and I'm gonna lump friends in there, too... let's just make it People I Love (and yeah, good pets are people) (and no, not vice versa)

skipping the country (I've lived all over the planet, have explored even more, and plan on living in the US only part time, if at all, once I grow up) (like that's ever gonna happen)

water

the internet

hot bath

color

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That was a few weeks ago.

Right now it's

people I love movement song color water stretching

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And just now it's

love (both friends and family), sky, sleep, legs (gracias a DIOS I have both mine!), voice/music, laughter

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I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

stuff

boys (OK, so just now maybe one boy in particular...)

girls

stuff I won't say in public... all those women who said >7s were lying.

how lucky (and thankful) I am (I'm a heinous cheezball; SO??!?)

"My reach is global, my tower secure; my cause is noble, my power is pure."

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Well, if not at the hospital, the answer WOULD'VE been "stupid 80s dancing at Asylum," but they CLOSED, and there's nowhere that good to go dancing in Tucson, so for the last few weekends I think the answer's been "whining."

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

After horror movies I'm actually afraid of the dark. Totally ridiculous, but there it is. Overactive imagination.

You should message me if Propose an edit

If you can teach me to snowboard or breathe fire or blow glass. Or get the Ranger 33 out of the slip without the pinche engine!!!

Or if you're babetastic and brainy, and you wanna go dancing or play Pictionary.

PLEASE, GODS, contact me if you have a solution to Asylum's death that beats Congress on Mondays. (I love it, but it doesn't come near Asylum.)

And please don't contact me if you're a guy looking to persuade me to cheat on Mr. Made-of-Awesome; I'm SOOOO not interested, and I really have no respect for men who are all about getting women to cheat. Ew.

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sophialicious: 530 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it's fun to think about
Education
Working on med school
Job
Student
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Okay), Arabic (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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