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soul_dart

43 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born in Santa Cruz, brought up in N. Hollywood and ended up here after attending Chico State. I'm so glad I live in CA, it really makes it much easier when selecting it in a dropdown menu.
Along the way I've had my bouts of adventure, which continue. Some constants have been running (competitive and recreational), travel, bicycles, vintage scooters, catching music, art and nature. I run a lot but I don't expect people to be into that, though music, art and nature would be nice. Mostly, but not always of course, I avoid the usual consumer world, popular, mainstream thing. I'm a DIY person, from changing the mini-screws on my glasses to building a live space. I take an individualistic stance. I have gumption.
A few more pesky I's....I'm nonconforming, but fit in healthily. I'm somewhat carefree and welcome mirth. I can be serious and direct when necessary, with what I'm trying to accomplish and with people. I am genuine and soulful. A humanitarian. Liberal and open-minded. I value communication immensely, facetiousness and sarcasm is fun too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hustling. Balancing the self-discipline of self-employment. Building my business. Working on my live/work space. Trying to be a competitive runner again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Restoring. Recycling....I'm a resourceful, creative bugger. Learning. Logic. Listening. Finding solutions. Finding second hand treasures. Fixing things. Building things. Organizing things. Leaving things better than I found them. Cross-Country running. Cooking mexican dishes. Falling asleep at the drop of a hat. You'd fall asleep fast too if you did everything I just listed in a day.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I'm noticing something about them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Razor's Edge, The English Patient, The Hours, Catch 22, Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. The wit and humor of Oscar Wilde, Dorothy Parker, David Sedaris. Mitch Hedberg, Mark Twain, Marx Brothers.

Bicycle Thief, Breaking Away, Black Stallion, Quadrophenia, Blazing Saddles (anything Mel Brooks really), Caddyshack, Goodfellas, Punch Drunk Love, Take the Money and Run, Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, American Beauty, Harold & Maude. Documentaries, drama, old, new and foreign, pretty much anything and everything. I love celluloid!

Art Blakey said that "Jazz washes away the dust of every day life". I think all music does that, whatever your taste may be. I like a ton of music, old and new, 60's music, soul. Some favorites are The Smiths, Cocteau Twins, The Kinks, The Sonics, Bowie, Grizzly Bear, Crass, Ween, Bent, Joy Division, Jerry Butler, Aretha Franklin, The Jam, GBH, The Specials, Hank Locklin, Style Council, The Exploited.

Food is a good idea, and I'm not overly picky. But a fresh, healthy, home cooked meal is the best. Quinoa is super food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
spectacles, floss/toothpick/toothbrush/toothpaste/mouthwash/gum,
bicycle, running shoes, space heater,
music....including any method or device to play it....just play it!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Running, The Eightfold Path, Jiddu Krishnamurti's way.
Cleaning up the mess I've made, mostly literal, sometimes figurative. Organizing. Materialism, stuff, getting rid of it all (except for one scooter and one bicycle and my tools and a pump and a generator, perhaps a nuclear power plant....I'm hopeless!) and moving to the country. Eating peaches? Avoiding touching the fuzz to the top of my mouth. Farming. Making trails.
Myself, family, society, justice, injustice, nature's beauty, somebody to share my life and life in general (I credit Depeche Mode for this last part).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yes, indeed I am....Descartes would agree with this, I'm certain.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I work better with music playing, sometimes loud! That's why I have a live/work space in a warehouse.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
upon looking at me you feel melty or you want to find out if we complement each other, or you wanna catch some music, get a drink...you know, something "date"-like, unless that word scares you. In that case we can call it "hang out".