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63 M Richmond, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 5:09pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Courtney A. Walsh says:
“Dear Human: You’ve got it all wrong. You didn’t come here to master unconditional love. That is where you came from and where you’ll return. You came here to learn personal love. Messy love. Sweaty love. Crazy love... But unconditional love? Stop telling that story..."

I'm an educated, curious, passionate man, interested in everything: from science, economics, politics and ancient anything to music, poetry and dance. But my real love is the intersection of psychology and spirituality -- opening more deeply into the present-moment experience until the heart of it is revealed. It is a practice of profound intimacy, both with myself and with others. It is intimacy, ultimately, that lights me up.

I'm a psychotherapist, teacher, author, and meditator. I'm financially and emotionally secure, smart, funny, kind, expressive, a good listener and a good communicator. Sensual, affectionate, and more interested in cuddling than sports. I love singing and dancing and would like to share those with my sweetheart. I like getting outside for hikes, camping, snorkeling. Long term, I want to do more traveling – Bali (again), Machu Picchu, Belize . . .

I'm seeking a woman as a best friend and equal partner on this journey, a woman with an inner-awareness practice, good communication skills, and a desire to be deeply open in the moment. A partner with whom to explore undefended love. Extra points if you just adore kissing and you're able to surrender into the experience and let yourself be deeply moved. I am deeply moved by intimate connection, and sharing that fills my heart with joy! As Rumi says, "Out beyond ideas of rightdoing and wrongdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there."

If reading this touches something in you, I’d love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
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gradually expanding into my full shining
clearing out whatever blocks it
helping other people clear out whatever blocks their shining
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, being reliable, being tender, touching,
undefended presence, listening, boundaries,
knowing myself, getting to know you.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my height -- 6' 3"
the Nepali hat I usually wear (not shown in the photos)
people often remark that I have a grounded, calm presence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A General Theory of Love
Moonstruck, Harold and Maude, Groundhog Day, Enchanted April, The Notebook, Like Water for Chocolate, A Man for All Seasons, Chocolat, Winged Migration
The Daily Show, Colbert Report
Music -- Deva Premal, Bonnie Raitt, James Taylor, Huey Lewis & the News, Van Morrison
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
or rather, Things I Value
good chai
touch, snuggling
giving and receiving love
singing, dancing, ecstatic poetry
undefended intimacy, love, and presence
a sense of connection with all things
eyes that see beauty
the feminine embodied somewhere in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a book I'm writing on character structure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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that I know how to protect private things so that it's safe to reveal them
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating