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soulgardener1

63 M Richmond, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Courtney A. Walsh says:
“Dear Human: You’ve got it all wrong. You didn’t come here to master unconditional love. That is where you came from and where you’ll return. You came here to learn personal love. Messy love. Sweaty love. Crazy love... But unconditional love? Stop telling that story..."

I'm an educated, curious, passionate man, interested in everything: from science, economics, politics and ancient anything to music, poetry and dance. Grew up near DC, lived in Europe as a teen, have traveled to Asia and Africa to teach and learn. Started college at MIT studying physics, switched to acting school to open up my emotional life, moved on to metaphysics, mysticism, and exploring awareness itself. I started out trusting my mind, but have discovered that my heart and body are wiser in many things.

My life-long love is opening more deeply into the present-moment experience until the heart of it is revealed. It's a practice of profound intimacy, both with myself and with others. It is intimacy, ultimately, that lights me up.

I'm a psychotherapist, teacher, author, and meditator. I'm financially and emotionally secure, smart, funny, kind, expressive, a good listener and a good communicator. Sensual, affectionate, and more interested in cuddling than sports. I love singing and dancing and would like to share those with my sweetheart. I like getting outside for hikes, camping, snorkeling. Long term, I want to do more traveling – Bali (again), Machu Picchu, Belize . . .

I'm seeking a woman as a best friend and equal partner on this journey, a woman with an inner-awareness practice, good communication skills, and a desire to be deeply open in the moment. A partner with whom to explore undefended love. Extra points if you just adore kissing and you're able to surrender into the experience and let yourself be deeply moved. I am deeply moved by intimate connection, and sharing that fills my heart with joy! As Rumi says, "Out beyond ideas of rightdoing and wrongdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there."

Physically, I prefer a woman who is slender, heartful, and present in her body. I need her to hold and embody the feminine polarity as I do the masculine. I love being able to switch off and explore the entire spectrum of masculine-feminine together, but I also want each of us to be firmly anchored in our home polarity. That's where the spark comes from!

If reading this touches something in you, I’d love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
gradually expanding into my full shining
clearing out whatever blocks it
helping other people clear out whatever blocks their shining
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, being reliable, being tender, touching,
undefended presence, listening, boundaries,
knowing myself, getting to know you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my height -- 6' 3"
the Nepali hat I usually wear (not shown in the photos)
people often remark that I have a grounded, calm presence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A General Theory of Love
Moonstruck, Harold and Maude, Groundhog Day, Enchanted April, The Notebook, Like Water for Chocolate, A Man for All Seasons, Chocolat, Winged Migration
The Daily Show, Colbert Report
Music -- Deva Premal, Bonnie Raitt, James Taylor, Huey Lewis & the News, Van Morrison
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
or rather, Things I Value
good chai
touch, snuggling
giving and receiving love
singing, dancing, ecstatic poetry
undefended intimacy, love, and presence
a sense of connection with all things
eyes that see beauty
the feminine embodied somewhere in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a book I'm writing on character structure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I know how to protect private things so that it's safe to reveal them in private