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64 Richmond, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:15am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an educated, curious, passionate man, interested in everything: from science, economics, politics and ancient anything to music, poetry and dance. Grew up near DC, lived in Europe as a teen, have traveled to Asia and Africa to teach and learn. Started college at MIT studying physics, switched to acting school to open up my emotional life, moved on to metaphysics, mysticism, and exploring awareness itself. I started out trusting my mind, but have discovered that my heart and body are wiser in many things.

My life-long love is opening more deeply into the present-moment experience until the heart of it is revealed. It's a practice of profound intimacy, both with myself and with others. It is intimacy, ultimately, that lights me up.

I'm a psychotherapist, teacher, author, and meditator. I'm financially and emotionally secure, smart, funny, kind, expressive, a good listener and a good communicator. Sensual, affectionate, and more interested in cuddling than sports. I love singing and dancing and would like to share those with my sweetheart. I like getting outside for hikes, camping, snorkeling. Long term, I want to do more traveling – Bali (again), Machu Picchu, Belize . . .

I'm seeking a woman as a best friend and equal partner on this journey, a woman with an inner-awareness practice, good communication skills, and a desire to be deeply open in the moment. A partner with whom to explore undefended love. Extra points if you just adore kissing and you're able to surrender into the experience and let yourself be deeply moved. I am deeply moved by intimate connection, and sharing that fills me with joy. As Rumi says, "Out beyond ideas of rightdoing and wrongdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there."

Physically, I prefer a woman who is slender, heartful, and present in her body. I need her to hold and embody the feminine polarity as I do the masculine. I love being able to switch off and explore the entire spectrum of masculine-feminine together, but I also want each of us to be firmly anchored in our home polarity. That's where the spark comes from!

If reading this touches something in you, I’d love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
gradually expanding into my full shining
clearing out whatever blocks it
helping other people clear out whatever blocks their shining
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, being reliable, being tender, touching,
undefended presence, listening, boundaries, inquiry,
exploring myself, exploring you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my height -- 6' 3"
the Nepali hat I usually wear (not shown in the photos)
people often remark that I have a grounded, calm presence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books -- Long Life, Honey in the Heart, Rumi, Kabir, Mirabai, A General Theory of Love, The Biology of Belief
Movies -- Moonstruck, Harold and Maude, Groundhog Day, Enchanted April, What Dreams May Come, The Notebook, Like Water for Chocolate, A Man for All Seasons, Chocolat, Winged Migration
TV -- The Daily Show, Colbert Report
Music -- Kate Wolf (Give Yourself to Love), Kathy Matea, Deva Premal, Bonnie Raitt, James Taylor, Huey Lewis & the News, Van Morrison, David Wilcox (if you haven't heard of him, you should!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
or rather, Things I Value
good chai
touch, snuggling
giving and receiving love
giving and receiving pleasure
singing, dancing, ecstatic poetry
undefended intimacy, love, and presence
a sense of connection with all things
eyes that see beauty
the feminine embodied somewhere in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a book I'm writing on character structure. Damn! Publishing a book is a lot of work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I know how to protect private things so that it's safe to reveal them in private