I live for the outdoors, especially the ocean. Surfing is my church - been going since I was four. I am good at most all athletics, but these days it's about exercising in nature. Most recently, Idyllwild has my outdoor heart.
I am a smart guy with a great heart and witty disposition. I majored in English Lit but am not hung up in grammatical correctness. I think of myself as highly emotionally intelligent for a male, and no that doesn't mean I'm a closet gay.
My family is my top priority, but I can make time with a little planning. I am in an open marriage configuration currently. Both my wife and I are better for having healthy social relationships outside of each other. I'm not looking for a replacement wife or to share my wife with another couple. I am seeking quality connections for activities that expand my social universe.
I can tell you that you'll feel safe and respected with me. I know no other way. I'm a vibrant and pleasant soul with a unique vantage on life.
I am an athlete, geek, dork and generally rad product of SoCal. You've never known anyone remotely like me, and I'm sure you are just as special as I am.