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soulguy37

39 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jul 8, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for activity partners and new friends. I'm not a creep and I'm also not Brad Pitt (but I do get mistaken for Russel Crowe quite frequently).

I live for the outdoors, especially the ocean. Surfing is my church - been going since I was four. I am good at most all athletics, but these days it's about exercising in nature. Most recently, Idyllwild has my outdoor heart.

I am a smart guy with a great heart and witty disposition. I majored in English Lit but am not hung up in grammatical correctness. I think of myself as highly emotionally intelligent for a male, and no that doesn't mean I'm a closet gay.

My family is my top priority, but I can make time with a little planning. I am in an open marriage configuration currently. Both my wife and I are better for having healthy social relationships outside of each other. I'm not looking for a replacement wife or to share my wife with another couple. I am seeking quality connections for activities that expand my social universe.

I can tell you that you'll feel safe and respected with me. I know no other way. I'm a vibrant and pleasant soul with a unique vantage on life.

Summary:
I am an athlete, geek, dork and generally rad product of SoCal. You've never known anyone remotely like me, and I'm sure you are just as special as I am.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working weekdays and finding creative ways to unwind on the weekends. The outdoors is innevitably always involved :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting with people. Conversation. Physical movement. Digital strategy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes are so blue or that I look like Russell Crow.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
100 Years of Solitude
The Four Agreements

Movies:
Contact
Shawshank Redemption
The Last Samurai
Amelie
Lost in Translation
Finding Nemo

Music:
Radiohead
Bajo Fondo
Birds and Batteries
Amos Lee
Dubstep
Police
Reggae
Kromestar
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Surfing
Reading and Learning
My two boys
Coastal California
Sunshine
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Remaining happy in this busy and complex world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe up in Cardiff or seeing a rare live show or eating a quality meal
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I kicked a cactus in 4th grade on a dare. I am afraid of wasabi.
You should message me if
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You're still reading this?

Just relax and let's chat.

You're into new friends and activity partners, Coffee shops, quality media, relaxing, talking, learning, exploring, adventures, etc.

Respectfully...