I am looking for activity partners and new friends. I'm not a creep
and I'm also not Brad Pitt (but I do get mistaken for Russel Crowe
I live for the outdoors, especially the ocean. Surfing is my church
- been going since I was four. I am good at most all athletics, but
these days it's about exercising in nature. Most recently,
Idyllwild has my outdoor heart.
I am a smart guy with a great heart and witty disposition. I
majored in English Lit but am not hung up in grammatical
correctness. I think of myself as highly emotionally intelligent
for a male, and no that doesn't mean I'm a closet gay.
My family is my top priority, but I can make time with a little
planning. I am in an open marriage configuration currently. Both my
wife and I are better for having healthy social relationships
outside of each other. I'm not looking for a replacement wife or to
share my wife with another couple. I am seeking quality connections
for activities that expand my social universe.
I can tell you that you'll feel safe and respected with me. I know
no other way. I'm a vibrant and pleasant soul with a unique vantage
I am an athlete, geek, dork and generally rad product of SoCal.
You've never known anyone remotely like me, and I'm sure you are
just as special as I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Working weekdays and finding creative ways to unwind on the
weekends. The outdoors is innevitably always involved :)
I’m really good at
Connecting with people. Conversation. Physical movement. Digital
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes are so blue or that I look like Russell Crow.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
100 Years of Solitude
The Four Agreements
The Last Samurai
Lost in Translation
Birds and Batteries
The six things I could never do without
Reading and Learning
My two boys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Remaining happy in this busy and complex world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe up in Cardiff or seeing a rare live show or eating a quality
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I kicked a cactus in 4th grade on a dare. I am afraid of wasabi.
You should message me if
You're still reading this?
Just relax and let's chat.
You're into new friends and activity partners, Coffee shops,
quality media, relaxing, talking, learning, exploring, adventures,