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45 Melbourne, Australia Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:59pm
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Adventurous, passionate, honest, intelligent, cheeky, playful, creative, curious, intuitive, sensual, authentic, spiritual soul- a work in progress. Who adores nature, dance, animals, music (great guitar/blues can transport me), art, film, architecture, discourse and most importantly, humour as it is very sexy. And we all like a bit of sexy now, right? I'm a mass of contradictions shadow and light. A fair balance of lady and temptress.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Examining it
Being creative
Facing challenges
studying humans and saving them from incomprehensible situations
Dancing and painting at the same time
Sweat lodge
Laughing at LouisCK
Commenting on the light

being unhoused, watching Dr. Cornel West

I have embarked on an epic professional adventure to the centre of Australia for 6 months ( actually I just extended it) life here is pretty grand 😊

Back in good old melbourne town by December.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being natural
Reading a situation
Spontaneous fun
spirited exchanges
Being a muse
Putting a music set together
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is my energy, smile and passion for life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The list is sooo long! I have read so many books from different genres. I have an interest in most literature. Books that are raw, undiluted that intrigue mystify and confront me.

ART: Although there is no category I am including one. Art is my all encompassing passion that I cannot live without! I adore art in many forms From the old masters to contemporary- rembrandt, Picasso, Chagall, Matisse, Van Gogh, Pollack, Whitely, De Kooning........ (Doco) Simon Schama's The Power of Art- oh my, Bernini, who can turn marble into flesh.. Caravaggio. Greatest art moment being at the MET in New York and in one room were the greatest artists of our time- I thought my head was going to pop with joy!
I also love Aboriginal art, the ancient language of our native people has a powerful effect on me.

FILM: Woody Allen- A hilarious peep show into a neurotic self absorbed mind.

HUGE HUGE HUGE music fan- blues, funk, soul, disco, dance, guitar. Im at a live gig at least once a week and I do love a good outdoor music festival from dancing in the sun to mud squelching between my toes as I boogie.
Just to name a few- Nick Cave, Dirty 3, the bonnevilles, Josh Ritter, Tex Perkins, Mark Lanagan, Bill Callahan- are you detecting a bit of a theme? I adore melancholy the tension between sweetness and sadness sends me into creative overdrive.

FOOD: Well I am of Italian descent so it goes without saying that food is incredibly important, I love the complexity of Indian food and the degustation of spanish - YUM - I also love good wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Courage, Truth, Hope, Purpose, Creativity, Humour, Passion, Expression- Capital E
Its not the material that I could never do without, its the experience of life. A life half lived, is one not lived at all.
The spirit of Dionysus
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next painting
the unconscious

The homology of hysteria
social injustice and the unexamined past which has lead to the sad state of our materialistic mind
The beauty of melancholy and how Nick Cave wears it like a well made suit
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I haven't had one for awhile but if a pattern develops I'll get back to you!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I paint barefoot listening to loud music.
I love funny dog videos 😉
You should message me if
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you could seduce me with your guitar or your mind. you are sophisticated in your thinking and like a spirited exchange.
You don't use lol:-)

Also please don't be offended if I don't reply to your messages. If I feel there is a possible match I will reply.

And just a tip guys I will not respond to your messages -
- if you are the same age as my child (21)cos its creepy.
- if you have naked pics of yourself in your profile, I like a little mystery....
- You call me babe or hot in your opening message
- you have yourself posing with a tiger in your pics
- You don't know the difference between love and attachment.
- you suspect you may be a misogynist or you don't know what one is :-)

Hmmmm that should narrow it down some :-)