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33 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:12pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A genuine, honest, empathetic, music-obsessed guy who loves new experiences and learning new things. I'm one of the most dynamic people you'll ever meet with a really wide range of interests.

I grew up in New York, so I'm very blunt, outspoken, opinionated and not afraid to speak my mind. And I have an accent. :)

My favorite thing in the entire world is live music shows. I've been fortunate to see many, many concerts. Probably a few thousand. Name an artist, I've probably worked for them.

Sometimes I feel like I lead a double life. Currently, by day I work as a psychologist. And by night, I work part-time at a few music venues in the Bay.

Those are a few things that come to mind,
The rest I'll let you figure out...
What I’m doing with my life

I'll save the fun details for conversations that are in-person. But just like everyone else on okcupid, I love traveling (Thailand; France; Amsterdam; Israel, and more); I've got a few degrees in random things that interest me (sociology, journalism, music, psychology,); and I've worked some pretty interesting jobs (forensic psychologist; social worker; merchandise person for bands in the music scene; and a few more)
But most importantly, I have a thirst for new experiences and adventures. I love to learn new things and see as much as possible. Forrest Gump style. :)
I’m really good at
knowing my strengths
and being honest of my weaknesses

Making a bacon, egg and cheese sandwich in the morning

Making eye contact with strangers

Untying knots

Listening and being empathetic

Being myself despite the environment or context.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm the only person I've met so far, that is the combination of my two particular ethnicities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - More non-fiction than fiction. Lately I've been reading science books.

Movies - I enjoy movies that make you think as opposed to ones designed to dazzle.

Shows - I don't watch much tv anymore, but I keep up with The Walking Dead, Breaking a Bad, Game of Thrones, Hannibal, Bates Motel, and most BBC documentaries.

Music - music is my favorite part of life. I hate when people say, "I listen to everything.". It sounds like a cop out. But I have to be honest...I listen to everything. I like talented musicians..despite the genre, if you know how to play your instrument, you've likely won me over. Having worked in the music scene for years, I've had the chance to see literally thousands of shows, and I've met most artists\bands I've ever listened to. Music is my favorite part of life.

Food - I'm mainly a carnivore. I enjoy trying new foods. I cooked bacon wrapped filet mignon for the first time the other night. It was really good. :)
The six things I could never do without
Things to assess \ figure out
Being able to travel \ be in nature
Stimulating conversation
Sunny days at outdoor festivals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How things work.
How people work.
And in the back of my mind, there is always the awareness that we're these animated blobs of matter, living on a planet that's soaring through space, in one of billions of galaxies. It helps me put things in perspective, and realize my tininess in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working some concert venue in the Bay area. Or not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm online dating...
I only have one picture up because I've worked in a field that makes me not want to be easily found online by clients.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you think you're as rare a breed as I am.