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southeast_first

29 / F / gay / Single

Alexandria, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am sarcastic, femme, and nerdysmart.

My Self-Summary

So I just moved back to the DC area, work in Dupont Circle and live with my fantastic rescue pit bull. I have a smallish group of amazing friends, but would love to get out in the city more and find new places and things to do.
I'm a huge fan of spontaneity, quick wit and people that don't take themselves too seriously. I'm really outgoing and always up for trying something new.

What I’m doing with my life

I work for a large education nonprofit in DC, I love it. I travel a lot for work also. I'm not a fan of thinking of my "5 year plan" but at some point I'll probably go to grad school, if I can stop changing jobs and/or moving every few years.

I’m really good at

crossword puzzles, knowing random lyrics to 80's songs, doing anything to make my friends laugh and reading a lot of books. A lot.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have a lot of tattoos, so that's usually first. Other than that I'm usually pretty upbeat, easy to talk to

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: My tastes are a perfect mix of foreign films and 18 year old boy action movies. Pretty much anything entertaining works for me. I'm probably the most un-pretentious movie watcher there is.

Music: Independent punk rock, mid-90's hardcore, bands from Richmond, VA. Car sing-a-longs are always invited.

Books: I'm like a swarm of locusts where I read one genre for a long time and then move on. Best book I've read in the past year: All Over Creation by Ruth Ozeki

The six things I could never do without

my dog
lipgloss
friends
traveling
hoop earrings
a can-do attitude

I spend a lot of time thinking about

when it's time to get sushi again, what my dog is doing, labor unions and deconstructing gender.

On a typical Friday night I am

up for anything

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

hmm, I'll probably tell you whatever you want to know, within reason.

You should message me if

you're up for the challenge