Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
LA RESIDENTS: I recognize that I live outside of LA. As connections
are hard to find, I am fine with this if you are, but please
realize it before we start talking, you sillies.
Someone once told me I was her anti-hero.
I call people "bro" unironically. I like hockey and UFC; I suspect
I may just be a fan of violence and gore. I don't like automatic
headlights; I think they're presumptuous. I'll decide when I want
my lights on, car.
I have been described as both having a "fuck you" sense of humor
and being a "fuck you" pragmatist. Mostly I think this is a neat
coincidence, especially given that they happened years apart.
I like meat and leather. I don't mind if you don't, but don't
impose your morality on me.
I have questionable morals.
I'm not looking for a ~*~*partner in crime*~*~. I'm looking for the
other half of a badass, vain, luxurious powercouple (who can also
be goofy and clever and kawaii as all hell).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an ~*administrative assistant*~ at a clinical trial site in
I take Brazilian jiu-jitsu
Though I am trying to lose weight (down 30 pounds \o/), learning
how to throw down is for reals fun as fuck and I'm excited to have
found exercise that is its own reward so I don't have to, like,
pretend that I enjoy running or some shit. I grapple 5-6 days a
week and I feel damn good about it.
I like to take pictures that look exactly the same, then post them
like they're different.
You know what I'm not doing? Having fun. I hate having fun, I hate
to laugh, and I'm not at all down-to-earth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• "You have this way of enthusiastically telling people they suck
in a congratulatory tone."
• Delivering cutting jokes with a disarming smile so that you're
all confused because I said something mean but said it so damn
• Being easily spotted from afar/in a crowd due to hair
• Irish goodbyes (minus any drunk driving, obvs).
• Karaoke with ever-important conviction.
• Considering phrasing semantics aloud.
• Casual and/or facetious hostility. (I have had this phrased as
• Eating the heels of bread. Once I made peace with this, I
realized it meant I could have the pieces other people didn't want.
More bread for me, suckers.
What I'm really bad at is whistling or snapping, because I can't do
The first things people usually notice about me
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My features are blatant: curly hair
, and a normal-sized Jewnose
On multiple occasions, I have been described as "a redheaded valkyrie
probably the descending upon the battlefield to select which slain
warriors to bring to Odin in Valhalla so that we may drink mead and
prepare for Ragnarök.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Power-related books, like The 48 Laws of Power
The Art of
, and The
. Also The Karl Lagerfeld Diet
because his quotes are so deliciously pompous.
, The Fifth Element
You For Smoking
. Full Metal Jacket
is definitely worth being quoted as much as it is. Mostly, I like
movies about badassery.
Music: Hip-hop/electronic mashups. Also kinds of rock and other
kinds of electronic music. Lots of songs make me really happy and
while it's awesome if our tastes mesh, I don't mind if they don't.
If you really care, though, there's this:
Oh, I guess I never filled out what shows or food I like. My eyes
always end up glazing over this section in other people's profiles.
This probably ends up being the least interesting part of any given
profile. Lots of people list the same shows but have wildly
different senses of humor. I like Community
, Game of Thrones
, Bob's Burgers
, The League
, My Little Pony
, and House of Cards
notably particular scenes between Frank and Zoe, *ahem*
((Please note this was written after the first season. Pls no S2
I also read webcomics: SMBC, xkcd, Questionable Content, Sinfest,
and Diesel Sweeties. I used to read a looooot more >_>.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet, pretty things, hyphens, wit, swearing, and brow
ALSO MY FAKE MOUSTACHE AND ESPECIALLY A PICTURE OF IT HA HA oh god
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Something that struck me is the phrase, "Shoot for the moon. Even
if you miss, you'll land amongst the stars." No you fucking won't.
Do people realize how far away shit is in space? If you shoot for
the moon and miss, you will land in a huge area of nothing, and you
will fucking die in that area of nothing.
I am NOT thinking about how to survive a zombie apocalypse. You are
not quirky for mentioning zombies. You are boring and uninspiredly
How weird and awful it is that movie-quoting is accepted by so many
people in place of actually being funny.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At jiu jitsu, then lifting weights to reach swolemaiden
status. But after
- Taking pictures of the leg/hip bruises I've acquired during the
week from grappling because their absurdity has not stopped being
novel to me yet.
- On the internet. This used to also probably include playing some
video game but I took a break for a while and there is not one
currently capturing my interest.
- Figuring out what to wear to monthly game night.
- Netflix with housemates.
- At a lesbian club. Useful for my housemates, and I get to dance
and not give a fuck.
- At some other bar with housemates, watching people try to score
with each other and laughing at dudes who are clearly begrudgingly
dancing only because the girl they're trying to bone wants to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I harbor a secret dream of getting fit enough to cosplay Lara Croft
or Leela some day.
I've been accused of being tsundere before. It could be true. For
as abrasive as my sense of humor can be, I want to like someone so
much that I want to be kind to them. I love cutesy mushy
Also, I hate hiking. But I have friends who hike, so it's totally
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You fit some (but not necessarily all! Don't worry!) of
You don't define yourself by where you moved to OC/LA from.
You enjoy mouthy Jewesses.
You have a delightful turn-of-phrase, and maybe a vaguely twisted
sense of "delightful."
You did wrestling in high school and/or do BJJ/MMA now.
Appreciation of darker-styled ladies is a plus. Gothy qtness
You find neurotic, stream-of-consciousness-type ramblings
I'm LGBTQ-friendly. I also have many poly and kinky friends. I am
not poly. Also, if you're of the dom[inant] variety, that would be
quite acceptable. Pretty necessary, even. If you are poly, I would
consider casually dating, but there is no longer-term potential. I
am monogamous with relationships.
You're the type of pony everypony should know.
A woman calling herself a feminist doesn't make you run away crying
I don't want to "just find a nice guy who would rather stay in and
play Scrabble with me than go out." Scrabble is the new cliché. I
fucking hate Scrabble.
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