Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


38 Holyoke, MA Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 10
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Has kid(s)
English, German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Full time grad student. Pretty busy. Stressed.

Wanting to do cool things with the cool kids.

Tired of always having to chase would like a season of being chased.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The things you do for love...

I've lived in many different states and counties. Traveled decently. Well educated. Brought up well. Familiar with languages. I can work with my hands. Mechanicing and carpentering are familiar friends. Design, planning, administration. Project managements. Lots of stuff. Learned a lot of what not to do too. Those lessons get learned hard don't they?

I am currently engaged in a doctoral program.

I study how body parts talk to each other and how to generate positive outcomes when said parts are malfunctioning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm definitely a jack of diverse trades.

I've built houses, computers, veggie fuel systems, midi controllers.

If I got into the list of things I have fixed it would take more than this little subject heading to contain it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm more attractive than these silly okcupid pictures make me out to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Diverse and eclectic musical tastes. I've been a musician and I play guitar, piano, mandolin, bass and accordion. Not all at the same time. So if it's your thing I'm always down for a jam sesh.

Literature: I've read the many Robbinses Huxleys Castenadas Gibran Kerouac etc... I learned how to read at a young age and there were less digital devices to be distracted with. Medical textbooks are what I mostly don't read now. Control F it.

Tv: How I met your mother
Big Bang. Greys. Scrubs

My preference for movies is directly proportional to the quality of acting.

Food: I would like to meet a woman who can cook with quinoa millet or other ancient grains. That would be delightful.

You don't have to be interested or even know about any of these aforementioned things as diversity is the spice of life and I would be happy if you shared what you have with me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
an income

Toys. I hope you like toys too.

Coffee in the am

The Krebs cycle (or citric acid cycle if that's how you roll)

Good tunes

Occasional solace from the daily nonsense.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physiology and molecular interactions. Honestly.

Other things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Traversing the pioneer valley.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Dreams and magic are hidden in the mundane.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
When you were here before, I couldn't look you in the eye. You're just like an angel. You're skin makes me cry. You float like a feather in a beautiful world.

I wish I was special, you're so fucking special.

But I'm a creep, I'm a widow. What the hell am I doing here?

I don't belong here.