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spacecowboyLA

33 / M / Gay / Single

Huntersville, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:32am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I finished my PhD in music history at UCLA and moved to NC for a job (though I am Ohioan by birth). That pretty much outs my nerd credentials. I was an eagle scout, so I love the outdoors. I have no qualms with wandering. I read quite a bit. And I like to think I have a pretty good sense of self-deprecating humor.

I recently started my career as a young academic. That seems to involve an awful lot of reading, writing, starting into space, and imagination. The imagination bit is what I enjoy the most.

Most days I am thinking about (some days even writing) a book.
What I’m doing with my life
Just arrived for a job as a visiting assistant professor. A little busy.
I’m really good at
Complicated question...
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile. Kindness. Laugh. Eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've been swallowed by A Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones). Read the first three books in about a month. soon to start the fourth. I miss reading Barbara Kingsolver.

I really love early Hollywood musicals. There is just something delightful about people bursting into song and those dramatic stage numbers appearing out of thin air. 1930s and 40s Hollywood is terribly underrated (don't hate on the black and white film).

I prefer long-form narratives, so my bias is heavily tilted toward television and video games (RPGs, etc.).

TV: Prime Suspect, The Closer, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica (reboot), Star Trek, MI-5, Burn Notice, Buffy/Angel, Friday Night Lights, The Shield, Downton Abbey, Skins, True Blood.

Video Games: Knights of the Old Republic, KOTOR 2, Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Mass Effect 2, Mass Effect 3, Bioshock (incomplete), Fable, Fable II (incomplete), Still Life, Advent Rising, Indigo Prophecy.

As for music, I can enjoy just about anything (hence the profession).

I like most food (except the raw stuff). Indian is probably my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Netflix, xbox 360, coffee, Craig Ferguson, p90x, and the ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
video games, television dramas, music (clearly...), politics (liberal), science fiction, and so forth. when i cannot sleep i read supreme court decisions. i find them fascinating.
On a typical Friday night I am
a) out with a drinking buddy;

b) playing mass effect 2 on the xbox;

c) yoga;

d) musing with my colleagues.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a fear of flour (the texture). It seriously creeps me out in a major way.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're curious.