spacesallowed
34 New York, NY
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My self-summary
The reality is that most people just skim thru these.. but.. I'll bite.

I can best be described as thoughtful joyful person. No answer is ever black or white, and the glass is never empty, even when it lacks water... but fully aware it's just a glass :-P

I care and think deeply about many things...

- extremely liberal, yet have an ever evolving political view
- believer that any individual has equal unalienable rights as any other individual ( this covers whatever rights issue you may like, gender/race/ethnicity/sexual preference )
- can do attitude
- exploring things
- why do people walk slower when I need to get places quickly :-/
- The history of.. well, everything.

Some basics about me..

- Native New Yorker / Manhattan Resident
- Studied electrical engineering at Cornell, but now work in software... so I *possibly* was smart at some point :-D ( this is a joke, schools mean crap and I used it as a prop to my joke.. if you get hung up on this, don't message )
- my picture face makes me look way too serious...
- Love to travel, and have been to 30 countries so far... many of them at twice..
- Enjoy great food, and love to try new cuisines... ( best dinning experience was at a stall in Vietnam's Ben Thanh market )
- Believe that experiences, and not end goals, are what make a life enjoyable and complete.
- Don't have a "type", I believe beauty and attraction are too complex to fit into a "type".
- Pretty much like every type of music, good beat or great vocals are my requirements. Best if combined, but not necessary:)

The profile is purposely left sparse so that we can actually talk to each other instead of a "hey, I read that on your profile"

Oh, and if you believe in that sort of thing.. I tend to fall between an INTP and INFP in the Personality department.
What I’m doing with my life
What you're supposed to do with it.. Living it..
I’m really good at
What I set my mind to.
( but if you must have a small list.. critical analysis and exploring places... not a bad cook either )
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes ( they really do change colors )
Upbeat attitude ( glass is always half full, plus hey, you have a glass AND water.. not bad.. )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shows: Doctor Who.. Breaking Bad.. and quite a few others.. This of course is ever changing..

Books: Too many to mention.. They do tend to gravitate towards science fiction, surrealism, and social science...

(Think "cien años de soledad"... Dune... The mismeasure of man.. )

Food: See above.. But I do tend to gravitate towards south Asian, Hispanic variations, many of the "fusions cuisines", as well as anything flavorful spicy..
The six things I could never do without
Always evolving list, ask me for the latest...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I could fit all my thoughts in a text box.. I'd be pretty shallow...
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to have an outie until 12.. ( no, it wasn't huge, and it just magically became an innie.. hehe )
You should message me if
You're open to great conversation.. The rest our interactions will decide.
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