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24 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
6′ 4″ (1.94m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Jacob. Musical cosmic explorer. Bearded traverser of the tides of history. Metalheaded friendly friend. Feminist and a dash of queer.
Resting bitchface extraordinaire.

I have always wished I could grow up to be Gandalf or Galadriel. GALADRIEL IS WISE AS SHIT.

I am a musically oriented history geek. I love space and knowledge. I love art. I love heavy as fuck music. I also love pretty music that makes me cry. Drink great coffee in grand amounts. I love reading sci fi and fantasy alongside books on the origin of monogamy, and books on the cultural history of Vikings, or the impact of the Chariot on the socio-military makeup of the world. I just love reading, to be fucking honest. I am a video gamer who also plays d20 games and MTG.

I am queer, even if at the moment I am in a heterosexual relationship... I go many ways. Hence the open relationship!

I also love fencing and martial arts, though its been a while since I've done any.

Don't bring me sexism, racism, classism, trans phobia, ableism, slut shaming, body shaming, or anything like that. I won't tolerate it. Discussions are fine, however, and I love them. Bring it into the open to eliminate it.

Oh and I fucking cuss all the time.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, making coffee at conventions, playing music, learning, and trying to be myself while helping people.
Maybe going back to school when it seems convenient.
I’m really good at
Making space whales and lazers and aliens with synths.
Playing dat groovy bass.
Making coffee.
Being moderately awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am over 6 feet tall, have a beard and a Mohawk esque haircut.
I look a little intimidating when I'm thinking, but I usually smile otherwise.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music - anything metal, hardcore, noisey, or groovy. Think post metal, black metal, shoegaze, noise, hardcore, stoner rock and stoner metal, doom.... With some pop and indie, garage and blues, and a dash of hip hop.
Dir en Grey, Gojira, Earth, OM, Nails, Weekend Nachos, Pelican, Cobalt, Agalloch, Daughters, Full of Hell, Baroness, Deafheaven, Grails, My Bloody Valentine, Wounded Giant, Weedeater, Windhand, Code Orange Kids, Childish Gambino, Blood Brothers, Foxy Shazam, Mother Mother, Queens of the Stone Age, Cage the Elephant, Listener, Jack White, Sleep, Death Grips, Altar of Plagues, Crossfaith, Letlive., Red Fang, MONO... List goes on.

Books - SciFi and fantasy, comics, history, sexual and gender studies to an extent. Wheel of time, LOTR, Ringworld, Sex at Dawn, Chariot, Umbral, Sex Criminals, Saga, The Histories ...

Shows/movies - anime, sci fi, etc.
Star trek, Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood, Supernatural, Cosmos, Fairy Tail, LOTR, Star Wars, Book of Eli.... Just examples.

Food and drink - whiskey, coffee, cider, water for days... Curry, tacos, and soup is my jam. Love fruit.

Videogames - RPGs, shooters, strategy, exploration..... Skyrim, fallout, warframe, the Witcher, total war series, Minecraft, starbound.

Tabletop games - DnD, pathfinder, magic the gathering, Star Wars Saga, GURPS. Anything fun.
Right now I'm playing DnD 4th in a MTG setting and a scoundrel themed game in Star Wars.
The six things I could never do without
Alone time
Occasional or frequent sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sexism, gender fluidity and identity, music, coffee, the concept of death and eternity.
How impressive the world is... Especially focusing on how amazing some processes and events we take for granted... For example, the act of speaking language.
Or the precise nature of planetary motion and orbits.
(and sex)
On a typical Friday night I am
My Fridays are never on Fridays, but on my "Fridays" I tend to be gaming, at band practice, or gaming in the dice fashion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am attracted to many drag queens both in and out of drag.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Wanna smoke a bowl? Wanna play games? Wanna go to a show?