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spagooter

44 / M / Straight / Available

Burbank, California

His Details

Last Online
May 22
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
44 years old
Educated
Employed in very unique job (you might have heard my work)
Honest
Passionate

These following words, written by Toni Morrison (She is an American novelist, editor, and professor), make a lot of sense to me. :)

"You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, because the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you?"
--Toni Morrison

While women look so very beautiful to me in all shapes, sizes and colors, I'm MOSTLY turned on by a woman's kindness and heart. I've found that most women wouldn't agree with the Morrison quote. Are YOU any different than the rest? If you're not, I hope you someday, deeply ask yourself why, or why not? :)
What I’m doing with my life
I place a very high value on having free personal time. Trying my best to enjoy every minute! I simply love life in general. It's so short, so why be so serious! :)
I’m really good at
I try my best to be a gentleman. I will respect your wishes. I try to be very thoughtful. All I want is to put a smile on your face (which puts a smile on my face too). : )

**Here's something to think about. We can all say "I'm really good at" whatever. I mean seriously, we're all good at this and that. And those things are probably always compatible with others. However, isn't the TRUE test of compatibility the way we handle misunderstandings with each other? And while we can all pat ourselves on our backs saying we're so good at whatever, who's going to write out bad stuff about themselves? Is someone really going to say that "I don't return calls or emails promptly", "I don't have much patience", "I have a lot of issues", "I'm not a very nice person", "I suck!", etc. lol My point is, we can all SAY whatever we want about how GOOD we are. But isn't talk cheap? I think the true test of a person is how they react when the going gets rough. Just something to think about. : ) **
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that my blue eyes are the first things people notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really enjoy reading autobiographies and non-fiction. As far as movies go, I enjoy drama and suspense. About food, I love Mexican!
The six things I could never do without
HONESTY
Health
Love
Happiness
Kindness
Fun
Cleanliness

(I know, it's seven)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I often think (especially while I'm in the shower) what an amazing gift we have that you can turn on a shower or faucet at any time, and an endless supply of water is there for all of us. I also think about SEX a lot (did that all capitals catch your eye?). To me, sex is so much better when there are warm, loving feelings and there's at least some emotional connection.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually at work entertaining thousands of people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll have to share this with you in person. : )
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
I'm basically looking for a woman who is honest and fun and is able to communicate how she feels.

Btw, I realize that the mating game is played by having the man contact the woman first. Sure, I guess that's how the outside world works. But if you're interested in me here online, just saying hi would be SO nice of you. After all, since this isn't a face to face meeting, I have no way of seeing your reaction to me if you've visited my profile and like me. And if you visit me and don't say hi, without communication from you I have to assume you've moved on, due to not being interested in me. So, if you DO like me, please at least say hi! : )

I'm simply looking to make friends and have fun. If it leads to something more, then great! If not, hopefully at least we both had fun.

Anyway, if you are actually open to thinking outside of what's been drilled into us our whole lives as "normal", then I'd love to chat with you. :)

I would hope that you're an open-minded person who understands what "Available" means on here. It means that I'm available to see you, without any deception nor dishonesty.