Employed in very unique job (you might have heard my work)
These following words, written by Toni Morrison (She is an American novelist, editor, and professor), make a lot of sense to me. :)
"You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, because the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you?"
While women look so very beautiful to me in all shapes, sizes and colors, I'm MOSTLY turned on by a woman's kindness and heart. I've found that most women wouldn't agree with the Morrison quote. Are YOU any different than the rest? If you're not, I hope you someday, deeply ask yourself why, or why not? :)