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spagooter

45 M Burbank, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I think self-summaries aren't as good as what other people think of you.

IF I must make this a self-summary, well, here it goes...

I tend to lean left in political issues. I love to skate (in-line and ice). I'm a bit of a hockey nerd. I love to joke around and be silly. In a way, I'm a 12 year old lol. However, I'm also responsible enough to pay my bills on time. I love to hike, especially in the mountains above Burbank.

I'm looking to date a woman who is kind, honest and has a silly, free-and-easy sense of humor. A woman that is in tune with her feelings, won't filter or fake her feelings with me, and is honest about her feelings, is VERY sexy to me.

I'm basically looking for a woman who is 100% honest, fun and is able to communicate how she feels.

I really don't mind if you are 5'10" and weigh 130lbs or if you are 4'8" and weigh 200lbs or anything in between. My tastes are all over the place visually. Yet it's what's inside that matters most to me.

Socials "norms"? I try to be myself and not judge others for not being the same as me. Easier said than done, not just for me, but for most of us. I believe that as long as you're not hurting yourself or others, have fun!
What I’m doing with my life
I place a very high value on having free personal time. I try my best to enjoy every minute. I simply love life in general. It's so short, so why be so serious! :)
I’m really good at
I think others can decide better what I'm "really good at". After all, most of us have a self image that probably is different than how others see us. All I know is that I try my best to be a gentleman, I will try to respect your wishes and I try to be very thoughtful. All I want is to put a smile on your face (which puts a smile on my face too). I've been told that I'm quite an open thinker. Recently I was asked if I believe in Astrology. My answer, borrowed from a scientific nerdy kinda character, was this: "Astrology? The sun's apparent position relative to arbitrarily defined constellations at the time of one's birth somehow affects one's personality?" I think there are more honest and likely things to believe in. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that my blue eyes are the first things people notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really enjoy reading autobiographies and non-fiction. As far as movies go, I enjoy drama and suspense. On TV, I enjoy Mad Men and Jeopardy! And I love Mexican food!
The six things I could never do without
HONESTY
Health
Love
Happiness
Kindness
Fun
Cleanliness

(I know, it's seven)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I often think (especially while I'm in the shower) what an amazing and awesome gift we have that you can turn on a shower or faucet at any time, and an endless supply of water is there for all of us. I also think about sex (making love to women that I'm both physically and mentally stimulated by). I've also noticed that so many women SAY they're all about honesty. So many profiles here on Cupid say things like, "I'm looking for an honest man". Yet that statement is usually just all talk. The honest statement most women should make is "tell me what I want to hear". A specific example is monogamy. Women seem to want, need and worst of all, expect men to be monogamous. Women want to hear a man say, "yes, you're the only woman I want to have sex with for the rest of my life". The truth is, for me at least, is that I would love to have sex with more than one woman for the rest of my life. I see this thought as something beautiful. After all, I'm not looking to punch women. Quite the opposite. If you're a rare woman who CAN handle the truth, wow, BIG props to you for being open minded and completely honest. :)

I think so many men and women are guilty of not tolerating differences in the opposite sex, not accepting the truth of the male brain working differently than their own. For example, I don't have a monthly period. I don't paint my nails! lol And it seems that I'm wired to want sex with more than one woman. Most women accept some differences ("lol of course you don't have a period") etc. But not all differences.

I guess it's kinda like food. You like onions (I'm just guessing). I don't. But I think you (if you DO like onions) should eat onions since they bring a smile to your face. It would suck for me to tell you "don't eat onions" just because I don't like them. See what I'm trying to say about monogamy?

I think partners should not only accept but embrace their friend's/lovers/spouses doing things that make them happy. And understand that, sometimes, what makes them happy has NOTHING to do with loving you any less. A better planet this would be... :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll have to share this with you in person. : )
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
I'm basically looking for a woman who is honest and fun and is able to communicate how she feels.

So many women and men in the dating world seem to have rigid requirements, sort of like a an employer interviewing an employee. "So, how fast can you type? 50 WPM? Not good enough." The truth is that sometimes the best person for the job might not necessarily fit exactly what you thought are necessary requirements. Besides, a human relationship isn't a job. It's a loving and human connection, no matter how long or short it lasts. I think this would be a better place if women (and men) didn't treat dating like job interviews.

Btw, I realize that the mating game is played by having the man contact the woman first. Sure, I guess that's how the outside world works. But if you're interested in me here online, just saying hi would be SO nice of you. After all, since this isn't a face to face meeting, I have no way of seeing your reaction to me if you've visited my profile and like me. And if you visit me and don't say hi, without communication from you I have to assume you've moved on, due to not being interested in me. So, if you DO like me, please at least say hi! : )

I'm simply looking to make friends and have fun. If it leads to something more, then great! If not, hopefully at least we both had fun!