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spankee1964

50 F West Hartford, CT

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 48–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 1
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I took my photo out for a reason. But I promise I'm cute for my age: petite, under fifty (for a few more months), and not too old to be spanked! I'm a professional with the sort of job that requires I maintain some level of anonymity. (This thing does not have spell check!) I also want to meet men who like to spank. That's the main reason I took out my photo. I can email a photo once I'm sure we don't know each other.... So I know this will generate a storm of responses among those who read photo-less profiles, with some thinking I am just looking for a sexual connection and others thinking I'm really odd to put this out there so soon. But spanking guys will appreciate what I need to do. I am seeking a long-term relationship, though, complete with shared values, common interests, similar stages of life developmentally, and general compatibility.
What I’m doing with my life
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If you measure success, in part, by how confident and competent one feels in her carreer, I'm feeling successful and always looking to improve my knowledge and skills. I'm also waiting for those financial aid packages to roll in as I help my daughter sort through the college selection process.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a good communicator -- both in writing and speaking in front of groups. I teach a class, and I'm very entertaining I'm told. I'm also good at making friends on dating sites. I'm just not so good at finding passionate love.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really know. I have a lazy eye that makes me self-conscious, so I hope it's not that! I'm told, when I ask, that it's only noticable when I'm very tired. Some have never noticed it (or are just being nice). Aside from my appearance, I think my first impression is of someone laid back, easy to talk to, funny and interesting -- except in those circumstances in which I'm feeling shy. Then I just seem shy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Woody Allen's most recent movies since Hannah and Her Sisters and Crimes and Misdemeanors (and I know he's not the most popular director right now), documentaries (political, social, animal-related), Most recently read: Far From the Tree (about loving children who might be harder to love), Augusten Burroughs' and David Sedaris' books, Twilight Zone, Seinfeld reruns, Law&Order: SVU, Sweet Honey and the Rock, James Taylor, Joan Baez, Indigo Girls, random gospel, folk, and bluegrass, Thai and Vietnamese, Indian, sushi, green smoothies, thin crust pizza with eggplant and/or green peppers.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The experience of having raised a child (though it was not at all as I expected), my camera, my dog, my career (and the colleagues who come along with said career), knowing I have at least a few friends who will always have my back, and -- though this might sound like a cliche -- my memories in the form of photographs (which gather more importance over the years as my memory fades).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I would like to travel in my retirement, what is love, what is chemical attraction, how are love and chemical attraction different, how those with societal power can exploit the powerless, if meeting someone compatible from a personal ad is likely, and how is it that we have all come to be. I also spend a lot of time thinking about technology, how I don't understand it, and how fortunate it is that my life is finite, given that I have already become a dinosaur.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This depends on whose weekend it is... Mine or his. On my weekends with my daughter, I am usually home typing on the computer to be physically near her (as I am tonight) as she ignores me from her tablet three feet away. Still, I like to be close. When she is with her father, I am likely to be out with friends -- the theater, a movie, a power walk, a meal, yoga class....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will admit that on my last date I failed to chew my food as thoroughly as I should have, and I choked on a piece of duck. I stood up, grabbed my throat for effect, signaled I needed help, and drooled uncontrollably all over my pink sweater. Just before my date got close enough to do the Heimlich, I coughed it up; the duck went flying at least five feet across the restaurant. And it was probably the classiest restaurant I was ever in. Maybe I answered the most embarrassing thing I was willing to admit. Since I told all of my friends, I guess it wasn't so private.
You should message me if
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If nothing I wrote made you roll your eyes or say, "yick!"