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spark2flare

37 / M / Straight / Single

Astoria, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Other (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I was born and raised in Queens, NY with two sisters. We had a fun childhood on the block with lots of other kids, lots of sports and games. I got in a lot of trouble as a teenager, especially hopping the subways. Left home, got educated, studied the sciences, looked at a lot of art, met people outside my ethnicity and culture, traveled (or travelled). Now I am enjoying my life in this great city, so different than when I was a kid. It is incredible the sophistication and complexity of our modern times.

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What I’m doing with my life
My career is in one of the top museums of NYC. I love it. I work with a diverse and creative staff making a positive impact on society through cutting edge exhibit design and fabrication.

I also research and teach endangered NA languages among native communities. (I cannot even list native languages in the adjacent My Details)

I spend a good amount of time in fitness training, or visiting museums and galleries.

When I can, I enjoy seeing dance performances.

A lot of walking and observing.
I’m really good at
Tipping generously
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Older Movies - The Hustler, Dr. Zhivago, Spinal Tap

Newer Movies - Holy Motors, The Art of Rap, The Fountain, Limitless, Yip Man

Books - Doctors: The Biography of Medicine, The Soul of an Indian, Tao Te Ching, Meditations, Mr. Palomar, Street of Crocodiles, Childhood's End, The Dancing Wu Li Masters

Shows on screen - Scrubs, House, MASH; Six Feet Under, Mad Men

Musicians - Rihanna, Janelle Monae, Beck, Neil Young, Miles Davis, Billie Holiday, Brian Eno, Brian Ferry, Kitaro, The Roots

Artists - Louise Bourgeois, Duchamp, De Kooning, Degas, Bruegal, Goya, Rembrandt, Filippo Lippi, Caravaggio, Utagawa Kuniyoshi

Comedians - Bill Hicks, Zach Galifianakis, Wanda Sykes
The six things I could never do without
art, exercise, parks, bagels, books and questions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to avoid all you who are drowning in the vat of popular but boring sludge you think is living.
On a typical Friday night I am
you know, doing cool stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I would love a nonconforming woman to ask me out.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you have an open heart and free spirit, you are easy going,

you want to spend a little time with me over coffee (or a cocktail) and have a little fun. If we have real chemistry lets go out and have a blast together.