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sparkadventure

38 F New Haven, CT

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
-A well traveled culture spy that can blend into a market in Asia, Africa, or Latin America uttering bad jokes to unsuspecting airport taxi drivers
-Nile River hippo and crocodile induced white water phobic
-Mountain biker turned road cyclist after an up close introduction between my front teeth and Moab
-Giddy to be outside and on the water
-Coffee snob who enjoys the ritual of making coffee almost more than the consumption of it
-Laughter lover, especially in the company of kids I work with all over the globe
-Enjoy a sense of pride of my work
-Adventure planner with a goal to make 40 x 40

And so who might you be...
-A fellow traveler of near and far who listens and acts on the urge to get out and explore with a global perspective to match
-A transformer between Carhardts and city dweller
-Is curious, asks questions, and listens for answers
-Can get on the level of a kid and question the absurdities of the adult world
-A healthy and well fed sense of humor
-An ease and sense of grounding
What I’m doing with my life
I'm fortunate enough to have a job that I love and one that surprises me on a daily basis, is challenging and inspirational with a dash of playful creativity and a smidge of international spice. Favorite hidden gems include the coast of northern Spain, deserts in general, Namibia, Buenos Aires, places where people have crazy curly hair, Capetown, somewhere I can have savory soup for breakfast...so many places to love.
I’m really good at
-Connecting with strangers (and non-strangers too)
-Landing in a new country and finding my way to the hidden gem of a restaurant or site worthy of a postcard
-Gathering and feeding a group of random friends
-Making a last minute meal from the random leftovers and condiments in the fridge
-Connecting with kids
-Wearing a mermaid costume with chuck taylors and jeans.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure on this one - have had many comment on my eye color - green, brown, yellow, hazel or all of the above... depending on what I'm wearing and how I'm feeling... next best thing to a mood ring, I suppose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music - anything live and with rhythm - African bands, Salsa, Argentinian tango, New Orleans cajun... as well as some blues, and can always enjoy classic performances as well.

Books - the Sunday NYT, Half the Sky, Einstein's Dreams, Terry Tempest Williams books, Mary Oliver poems, The Guernsy and Potato Peel Society, Water for Elephants, Like Water for Chocolate, What is the What, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy... some favs.

Movies - Darjeeling Limited, Cairo Time, Sex & Lucia, Il Postino, Roman Holiday... foreign and classics alike...
The six things I could never do without
A passport, MB, and could live without most everything else ... I'm simple...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Building community near and far through food, art, and play. How to appease the snow gods so that we get a decent winter with the white stuff. The mysteries of this OKC experience.
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing! Out at live music, enjoying good eats & drinks, diving into community events, shaking it up at dance parties, hosting potlucks. Essentially enjoying wherever I am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Will save that for later...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You've got a good story, you've got your life headed in a direction you're happy with, and you're interested in more than just email banter.