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35 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 13
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love literature, laughter, and life;
an ex-East coaster, San Francisco convert, and midwesterner at heart;
a Korean-American English teacher with an unhealthy love for commas and words and the order and chaos of things;
a laidback guy with a hidden edge.

I like my beer and coffee dark, I like to have a plan but be spontaneous. I'll try anything once, or forever; I love new experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend most of my time with books and kids. They keep me young.

I am equally comfortable reading or dancing, kicking ass in Scrabble or taekwondo, hanging out with octogenarians or kindergarteners, riding waves or writing sonnets, leading or going with the flow.

Most recently, I joined a support group for writing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- looking at the bright side

- word games like Scrabble and Boggle

- getting sidetracked...

- tornado kicks

- dealing with drama (of other people, not mine). I teach teenagers, so yeah, there's drama.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-my smile and laughter

-my gender, age, and race (although they may not admit it)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Some faves:
Books: The Brothers Karamazov, Cloud Atlas, Possession, Lord of the Flies, Never Let Me Go, To Kill a Mockingbird, Cat's Cradle, The Road, Harry Potter
I love books that gives me chills down my heart soul a la Dostoevsky, Chekhov, and Kafka.

Movies: Godfather I & II, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Blade Runner, The Shawshank Redemption, Grave of the Fireflies, Let the Right One In (and anything w/vampires, really, except for Twilight)

Shows: South Park, 30 Rock, Community, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Sherlock, etc.

Music: '90s music!
Otherwise, kinda all over the place depending on the mood: hip hop for dancing, classic rock for chilling, classical for working, etc.

Food: Korean, Japanese, dim sum, Thai, Indian, Popeyes (my guilty pleasure), medium-rare steak, hot soup on a cold day, street food, finger food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family and friends (tried and true)
the written word
basketball (or something active)
coffee stout - because I like both coffee and beer
randomness - I like being surprised. (I don't care it's 7.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- what I spend a lot of time thinking about
- how to write a profile
- where to spend my next summer
- where the universe is going
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- not grading papers/tests
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm naked underneath my clothes.

I like Taylor Swift :P
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you are sweet, smart, cute, funny, zany
-you love books, food, humor, going out, words games, something different
- you want to.