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34 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 13
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a lover of literature, laughter, and life; an ex-East coaster, San Francisco convert for life, and a midwesterner at heart with international urges; a Korean-American English teacher with an unhealthy love for grammar and language; and a laidback guy who gets occasionally competitive.

I like my beer dark and coffee darker. I like to plan but like being spontaneous better. I'll try anything once, and nonstop if I love it. I'm addicted to new experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Hmm, this one makes you think, doesn't it? I love what I'm doing with my life: I spend most of my time with books and kids. It's a challenging, rewarding, often hilarious, and always thought-provoking life. The kids keep me young.

Spending a week in the desert/mountains is good for my soul, so I do it at least once a year. I dabble in various activities depending on the mood: boxing, balling, breakdancing, acting, martial arts, yoga, meditation, etc. It just feels good being active, you know?
I’m really good at
- dealing with drama (of other people, not mine). I'm an advisor to 7th graders, so yeah, there's drama. Remember that age? Yep.

- Friends have told me I give good relationship advice. Want some advice? Ha. (The irony isn't lost on me.)

- looking at the bright side: I'm an optimist. Anne Frank's whole take that there's inherent good in everyone? What Scout says about there being just one kinda folks? I tend to believe it.

- word games like Scrabble and Boggle.
The first things people usually notice about me
-that I'm friendly and approachable. My colleagues appointed me the social chair.

-I have a hearty, reverberating laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like this grouping; art is sustenance, methinks.

Some faves:
Books: The Brothers Karamazov, Cloud Atlas, Lord of the Flies, Never Let Me Go, The Road, Harry Potter
I love books that gives me chills, and I don't mean like in the horror genre. I love the likes of Dostoevsky, Chekhov, and Kafka.

Movies: Godfather I & II, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Blade Runner, The Shawshank Redemption, Grave of the Fireflies, Let the Right One In (and anything w/vampires, really, except for Twilight, of course)

Shows: South Park, 30 Rock, Seinfeld, True Blood, Battlestar Galactica, It's Always Sunny in Philly, Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, etc.

Music: '90s music! Seriously, there's nothing like songs that take you back in time...
Otherwise, kinda all over the place depending on the mood: hip hop for dancing, classic rock for chilling, classical for working, etc.

Food: Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, Popeyes (What can I say? Love that spicy chicken!), medium-rare steak, kettle chips, hot soup on a cold day, street food anywhere in the world, hole-in-the-walls off the beaten path, pointing randomly at a menu that I can't read. Yum.
The six things I could never do without
books - FYI iBooks don't count.
basketball - gets me fired up
passport - I'd be trapped without it.
GPS - unabashedly dependent on it
coffee stout - because I like both coffee and beer
randomness - I like being surprised.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- what I spend a lot of time thinking about
- how to write a profile
- where to spend my next summer
- where the universe is going
- where my time went
On a typical Friday night I am
- out with friends
- at a show/concert
- snuggling in bed/sofa with a book/movie
- not grading papers/tests
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm naked underneath my clothes.

Joking aside?

I have enjoyed Taylor Swift on occasion. There, I said it. :o
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- you are sweet, smart, cute, funny, zany.
- you found my profile amusing.
- you want to.