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sparklefemme

36 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Gay girls only
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:36am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Gujarati (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm sweet, witty, compassionate, and a driven. I find myself making the most of my weekends with fun (dancing, socializing, art shows, indie shows, wine tasting, spending one-on-one time with people I care about) and also self-care (working out, yoga, meditation, doing art, reading, putzing around). I enjoy films, day road trips, cooking elaborate dinners, and talks about culture and sports. I've traveled to many places. I'm spontaneous, responsible, level-headed, and well-rounded. Though I love nature, I haven't camped in the NW yet since I love easy getaways to hotels so much.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm professional and I try to maintain the PYT lifestyle. I'm also focusing on wanting to meet quality people and trying to bring back more art, spirituality, and balance back into my life. I've been going to the driving range lately and hope to get good enough for a round of golf soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a social butterfly and a fun conversationalist, organizing hang outs, making people feel at ease, being sweet, being cute.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warmth and openness, my smile, my eyes, my skin, my laugh, my L.A.-ness, my sparkle...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a lover of books and reading! I read one book a week. Lately, because my job involves a lot of brain power, I find myself gravitating to adventurous stories or murder mysteries.

I listen to all types of music. I grew up listening to new wave (The Cure, The Smiths) and Hindi songs. I just made a make out cd for my guests at my latest Indian New Years party. It included everything from Nina Simone's "I Want a Little Sugar in My Bowl" to TLC's "Red Light Special." I love songs from the '80s. Siouxsie Sioux and Madonna can do nothing wrong.

Regarding movies, here are some of my favorites that I can watch repeatedly: Giant, Some Like it Hot, Star Wars, Blazing Saddles, But I'm a Cheerleader, Khabi Khushi Khabie Gham, Sound of Music, Coming to America, and Top Gun.

I enjoy comedy shows and have been watching Mindy Project and Park and Rec. I miss Lost. I can watch Absolutely Fabulous, I Love Lucy, Jeopardy, cooking shows, and detective shows all day long. I am obsessed with British murder-mystery shows right now. Scandal is fun!

I LOVE board games and card! Settlers of Catan, Apples to Apples, hot dice, card games that continue for days, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and good friends, my queer community, art and music, black eyeliner, sports, and sun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My family, the ladies, my friends, my future plans, the Lakers, art and craft projects, the science behind new recipes, palm trees, social justice, my house, psychology, new restaurants to try, how to perfect balance in my life (oh, the woes of Libras).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either cooking epic dinners for friends, making cocktails for a game night or rallying up for a night on the town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This PYT surprisingly likes geeky things. I can recite lines from Star Wars episodes IV-VI.
You should message me if
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If you're really nice, fun, smart, driven, direct, and open to getting to know me. While on this adventure to find Ms. Right, I am open to having some fun. I look forward to first dates with no expectations or pressure.