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33 F South Bend, IN

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Today – 5:50am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
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Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I've moved around a bit, but I'm mainly from St. Louis. I've been in South Bend for over two years. I have great groups of friends in both places and we do a lot of activities, especially in the summer. Barbecues, winery days, float/canoe trips, baseball games, and wacky nights out for people's birthdays. I've also spent some time in Vermont and Chicago. I've still got a lot of friends in Chicago and am more than happy to make my way up there for an afternoon of frivolity (or just coffee or dinner).

I'm looking for a social person who shares my interests in reading (anything--not just the academic stuff I have to read!), travel, going to museums and plays, and the occasional beer or coffee after work. I love pubs and good beer! Personality-wise, I'll find you attractive if we can engage in some witty repartee.

Special skill--intense accidental punning.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on my PhD...goofing off here and at home as often as I can manage.
I’m really good at
--planning things out
--making the most of a day or weekend in a/the city
--making my friends laugh

...These are random samples. If you asked anyone else who knows me, I have no idea what they would say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh, dear, what if I haven't read it yet?

I love books, so movies are somehow easier to list.

The Big Lebowski
Withnail and I
Howl's Moving Castle
Little Miss Sunshine
Princess Bride
Star Wars

Shows--I don't have cable, but I manage to watch whatever I really want to see on the computer.

Arrested Development
30 Rock
How I Met Your Mother
The Big Bang Theory

Food and Drink:
Water! Tea and coffee. When it comes to alcohol, I like dry red wines, sweeter scotch, and craft beer. Also, prosecco makes everything feel like a party.
Foodwise, I've been making a lot of stuff at home in the crock pot lately, because it's easy, but I love Italian and Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Books (that counts as one, right?)
cell phone
some kind of pet--I've had a cat for several years now, but grew up with dogs.

Hm...that's only five. I'll think of a sixth.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or over at someone's house, being social. Occasionally taking a night alone to recharge. I need a little bit of alone time on a regular basis.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Just ask. I don't have many secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've got a story that you think will crack me up.

And you're not going to just paste in the same message you always use (I mean, we've all got a template, but c'mon). If it goes that far, you're also not going to show up for our first meeting wearing an old t shirt with a hole in it.